I live in New York City. HAlf of the guys in my gym are gay. and believe me, even they don't care if they look gay or not. They just care when they look at themselves in the mirror and can laugh of whoever make fun of them because they look 10 times better than 90% of the gym population. If the sraight dead lift looks gay, well, do it with fashion and form and look at yourself in the mirror and not at who is looking at you. At the end you will love the results no matter how you thing it looks!
Glassvoice