Bor,
Courting? Dating for me is like sitting across from a 7 year old and listening to them tell you about their day at school. American women suck, sir, they just do, believe me they are a materialistic bunch. This has made it easy for me to get laid, but boring for me to date.
I find it interesting that two of the responses involving something like "I like to sit and talk etc" involve non-Americans. Sitting and talking with American girls....read on.
There is NOTHING I am going to hear on a date that I (1) don't already know (2) find interesting (3) broadens my horizons.....it's just not going to happen. The kneee jerk response is to say I am dating the wrong people, but believe me, this applies virtually across the board. In 2004 I set out to date 100 people, got to like 74...so I have empirical evidence.
If I date women under 25, we have fun at least; they're out to have a good time and we do. If I get involved with the 25 and over crowd, I usually end up giving them career advice.
But in both cases I am listening to nonsense for hours. Thus, "here is the cash, let's fuck" seems like a pretty good alternative.
Or else I could move to Australia.