GoldenDelicious said:deleted a whole post saying more or less the same thing
if its all about sex to the point that the convo/preliminary is bullshit, then jsut get a pro - otherwise all the fun that is courting is just wated on you
besides, many good friends of mine are failed potential lovers.
if you carre yourself properly, theres little chance of the evening descending into "putting up with bullshit while i wait for maybe sex"
anyway, thats jsut me
Bor,
Courting? Dating for me is like sitting across from a 7 year old and listening to them tell you about their day at school. American women suck, sir, they just do, believe me they are a materialistic bunch. This has made it easy for me to get laid, but boring for me to date.
I find it interesting that two of the responses involving something like "I like to sit and talk etc" involve non-Americans. Sitting and talking with American girls....read on.
There is NOTHING I am going to hear on a date that I (1) don't already know (2) find interesting (3) broadens my horizons.....it's just not going to happen. The kneee jerk response is to say I am dating the wrong people, but believe me, this applies virtually across the board. In 2004 I set out to date 100 people, got to like 74...so I have empirical evidence.
If I date women under 25, we have fun at least; they're out to have a good time and we do. If I get involved with the 25 and over crowd, I usually end up giving them career advice.
But in both cases I am listening to nonsense for hours. Thus, "here is the cash, let's fuck" seems like a pretty good alternative.
Or else I could move to Australia.