Interesting notions...
My husband had been in oil and gas for 20 years. One of the things that I distinctly remember the O&G Fraud attorney said of him after extensive interviews (that could put us both in harm's way for selling out all of the thieving POS that have been ripping off millions for many MANY years. He pursued my husband for months begging for his help to put these people behind bars. My husband always refused because he feared for our safety. It wasn't until I told him that HE MUST do the right thing, that WE would be ok because our karma is good that he agreed to help out.), "You know after all the interviews I have done with everyone in this business NO ONE had a singular negative thing to say about your husband."
... and no one who ever speaks
truth will be able to.
Money is a necessary evil.
It may not make the world go round but love DONT pay the rent.
As for assassinating someone else's character just because it makes the assassinator feel superior, that is sorta tacky.
But then again, I suppose that we are all guilty of behavior that we aren't particularly proud of.
For those of you who think that you would judge someone based purely on their likability and not be impressed by someone's success... you guys are sorta fibbing, that is, not unless YOU have traveled in those circles on a regular basis. I mean, what is there to be impressed about insofar as wealth when YOU have achieved the same? After you have achieved a certain level of success, the bar will be raised. It will be then alone that others will no longer be able to impress you with *stuff* but by WHO THEY ARE ALONE.
I think that Ms HeatherRae quoted an excellent maxim. It is now one of my favorites.
"Men are best measured like trees, when they are fallen."
.... think on that.
A man has to be a tree first, before he can fall.