It's really too bad when some men absolutely refuse to hear what is going on inside a woman's head. Heck, many women aren't even capable of verbalizing things like this, let alone saying them out loud to their partner or to an entire internet forum visited by countless e-strangers.
How can greater understanding between the sexes ever be accomplished if either one or both genders won't take a deep breath and acknowledge that WE ARE ON THE SAME SIDE?