The opposite sex

[bignate73]

tis true. its cool, i leave the lights on.

 

[PHATchik]

That's always an important thing to know.

 

[3Vandoo]

Ive been dumped 4 times in 18 months so now I decided that I will not try
to understand women

 

[PHATchik]

Ive been dumped 4 times in 18 months so now I decided that I will not try
to understand women

Trust me, I'll never understand men either.

 

[KAYNE]

I DONT REALLY UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!! TAKE THIS FOR EXAMPLE.......WHY DO ALL THE GOOD GIRLS GO FOR THE ACEHOLES???

ALSO, TAKE THE CASE OF MY EX. SHE WAS TREATED LIKE SHIT BY ALL HER PAST BOYFRIENDS. I TREATED HER BETTER THAN ANYONE SHE HAS EVER HAD. SHE TREATED ME LIKE TOTAL DIRT. GO FIGURE!!!


KAYNE

 

[Sexual Mustard II]

that was the problem with my ex....whenever we had an issue I was always the one who tried to get her to open up and talk. She would just hold it all in and pretend everthing's fine. She avoided confrontation at ALL costs. Then the bitch dumped me!

 

[PHATchik]

I DONT REALLY UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!! TAKE THIS FOR EXAMPLE.......WHY DO ALL THE GOOD GIRLS GO FOR THE ACEHOLES???

ALSO, TAKE THE CASE OF MY EX. SHE WAS TREATED LIKE SHIT BY ALL HER PAST BOYFRIENDS. I TREATED HER BETTER THAN ANYONE SHE HAS EVER HAD. SHE TREATED ME LIKE TOTAL DIRT. GO FIGURE!!!


KAYNE

Not all the good girls go for that kind of guy! I don't, thank you very much. If a guy treats me like dirt, I will tell him what he can kiss and show him the door.

 

[KAYNE]

SORRY, 9 OUT OF EVERY 10 DO!!! AND THAT 10TH ONE IS USUALLY TAKEN.


KAYNE

 

[PHATchik]

SORRY, 9 OUT OF EVERY 10 DO!!! AND THAT 10TH ONE IS USUALLY TAKEN.


KAYNE

Then, I am very glad to be the exception.

 

[Sassy69]

I hate getting into conversations where people make huge generalizations about something (e.g. All women are the devil) and then try to figure out if its being applied to me as well. Especially in situations where you are talking very specifically about yourself with someone who is ranting and raving about things like that, all you can do is pull them down to the specifics -- Ask "When you say 'All women are the devil', are you referring to me as well?" If yes, then "Why?" Communication is where everything can fall apart or survive. People need to be very clear about what they are saying when it involved specific people /situations. Raw generalizations should be questioned because the person saying may just be shooting off his/her mouth, and the other person will either take it personally or maybe miss a message that the other person was trying to bury in the generalization. So MAKE that person clarify. Otherwise you are left making assumptions and possibly feeling hurt or personally insulted. Then if you get annoyed at that person, you basically just become another of the people he/she is "generally' ranting about.

Its all communication. Not just male & female things.