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Dude, been there done that. I know it sucks but this is the world today. People are more selfish and into themselves. They're not strong enough to enter relationships at a younger age. IMO what could be better then bonding with someone early on and sharing all the ups and downs and experiences that a young life leading into adulthood has to offer. It bonds people.
But instead everyone wants to fuck their brains out with as many people as possible. And in the end this accomplishes what? NOTHING. They'll be just as empty in the end as they were in the beginning. Especially women.
But instead everyone wants to fuck their brains out with as many people as possible. And in the end this accomplishes what? NOTHING. They'll be just as empty in the end as they were in the beginning. Especially women.
Werd
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What is wrong with fucking your brains out at any age REGARDLESS of your gender? As long as the parties are MUTUALLY CONSENTING ADULTS?!
When people are "ready" to enter a committed relationship, they either do it or they dont. Whether someone is 18 or 68; age is NOT the determining factor for who is or is not commitment material. The only difference is that as someone ages and gains life experience one would THINK that they would have the ability to know when to stay and when to bail; at the very least know how not to play games.
Strong-arming someone into a "commitment" just because you dont want her fucking other dudes is silly and immature.
If she wants to be intimate with you alone, then she will be that way without you deciding for her.
Be secure with yourself. Enjoy the relationship the way it is presented or say, "I really like you but this just isn't working for me this way." and move on.
When people are "ready" to enter a committed relationship, they either do it or they dont. Whether someone is 18 or 68; age is NOT the determining factor for who is or is not commitment material. The only difference is that as someone ages and gains life experience one would THINK that they would have the ability to know when to stay and when to bail; at the very least know how not to play games.
Strong-arming someone into a "commitment" just because you dont want her fucking other dudes is silly and immature.
If she wants to be intimate with you alone, then she will be that way without you deciding for her.
Be secure with yourself. Enjoy the relationship the way it is presented or say, "I really like you but this just isn't working for me this way." and move on.
strongsmartsexy
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A man wise beyond years.Mr. dB said:
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Werd said:
Let me say it a different way. Fuck your brains out now while you can. A relationship WILL catch you at some point. Then the REAL work begins...
havoc
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It's very difficult/impossible to find a woman that does not have some type of emotional/bipolar-like/psycho/depressed/up-down/mood swing galore/fragile/baby tones to her, could be just one of those or a conglomeration.
Yes they have hormones to deal with that men do not, but most of all that malarkey is a cop out. Most women of today succumb to the environment, TV, magazines, other people's opinions, they think they have to live up to societies standards, .....and many men do as well, it all boils down to a weak mind and letting other outside sources control your thinking, so many people of today are mind-phucked into a state of cluelessness that their actions and thoughts which are rooted in improper thinking are basically too far gone, to a point of hopelessness, and what is even worse is that they don't have a clue about it, and when confronted just deny it with more ignorance. Most of the time they are offered help/advice, but just blow it off, deep down they know they have issues but are so weak and take on a "who cares" or "what's the difference" attitude that nothing gets accomplished, it usually takes a big eye opener for someone to see the nasty insides of themselves, then it may be to late.
There are a gang of women in my life, family, friends, girlfriends, that are beautiful people in many ways but have so many issues that stem from their mind, and again let me say that many men are like this as well. If you're thoughts are not on obtaining righteousness, getting closer to the Creator, living life each day to the fullest, not taking even the small things for granted, not caring if you have a pimple on your face, not caring about what car you drive, not caring about what brand of clothes you wear, not caring about the material world, etc then you need to adjust your thinking, your letting outside influences make you who you are, it's not you, it's this environment you reside in that molds you, you need to mold, make yourself.
Most women today woke up, put make up on, covered their existing zit for the day, primped this primped that (men as well), why? What if it was the "cool" thing to be exactly the opposite of this, to have as many zits as you can your face, to have wrinkles, etc etc etc, then people of today would have face creams that cause pimples, wrinkles, etc. This can be applied to anything. So many folks are controlled by the environment. It takes practice, mindfullness and focus to get away from this garbage, but over time it can be done inch by inch, start practicing my niggas. peace
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Yes they have hormones to deal with that men do not, but most of all that malarkey is a cop out. Most women of today succumb to the environment, TV, magazines, other people's opinions, they think they have to live up to societies standards, .....and many men do as well, it all boils down to a weak mind and letting other outside sources control your thinking, so many people of today are mind-phucked into a state of cluelessness that their actions and thoughts which are rooted in improper thinking are basically too far gone, to a point of hopelessness, and what is even worse is that they don't have a clue about it, and when confronted just deny it with more ignorance. Most of the time they are offered help/advice, but just blow it off, deep down they know they have issues but are so weak and take on a "who cares" or "what's the difference" attitude that nothing gets accomplished, it usually takes a big eye opener for someone to see the nasty insides of themselves, then it may be to late.
There are a gang of women in my life, family, friends, girlfriends, that are beautiful people in many ways but have so many issues that stem from their mind, and again let me say that many men are like this as well. If you're thoughts are not on obtaining righteousness, getting closer to the Creator, living life each day to the fullest, not taking even the small things for granted, not caring if you have a pimple on your face, not caring about what car you drive, not caring about what brand of clothes you wear, not caring about the material world, etc then you need to adjust your thinking, your letting outside influences make you who you are, it's not you, it's this environment you reside in that molds you, you need to mold, make yourself.
Most women today woke up, put make up on, covered their existing zit for the day, primped this primped that (men as well), why? What if it was the "cool" thing to be exactly the opposite of this, to have as many zits as you can your face, to have wrinkles, etc etc etc, then people of today would have face creams that cause pimples, wrinkles, etc. This can be applied to anything. So many folks are controlled by the environment. It takes practice, mindfullness and focus to get away from this garbage, but over time it can be done inch by inch, start practicing my niggas. peace
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havoc said:
Most of your post made sense. But this last part is just a little over the top and suggest becoming a social recluse. A little vanity is a good thing. Caring for a pimple is maintaining God's temple, nothing wrong with it in moderation.
A lot of your points function under the assumption that society on the whole is bad. This leans toward the mentality of not taking on personal accountability for one's self. So while you make valid points i will take on a more moderate stance on this.
havoc
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GREGORY said:
I was being vague and non-specific(had to or I would of typed all day), however, I have a neighbor that if she has a pimple it will control her entire day, how long she talks to someone, who she will show her face to, there are so many folks like this. I was not at all suggesting a social recluse whatsoever, don't know where you got that, interact with society in the same way you would just without all the unneccesary bs that I vaguely touched on in my last paragraph. peace
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