Ok, Im probably 90% sure Im going to do the 5/3/1 after me meets, the high rep stuff at the start where Im hitting rep pr's will be a good change of pace and hopefully Ill get some growth from it, also it will go along with what I got told by the SHW PL'er I met that I shouldnt need to go under 5 reps. It will give me a deload which I will need soon. The 5/3/1 also calls for a deload week on all big 4 lifts every month. Im trying not to think about this too much because the shitty slow progress pisses me off, but everything else seems good and that template has worked for me before. I am going to start out doing 3 assistance exercises for my presses, and 2 assistance exercises for my squats and deads with some weighted core work on those days too. I will be hitting calves twice a week, mondays and fridays with 2-6 sets.
Deadlift assistance will be chins, rows and zercher weighted hypers
Benchpress assistance will be dumbell presses, tri extensions and rear delt flye's
Squat assistance will be leg press, RDL and weighted ab work*
Military assistance will be dips, lateral raises and either shrugs or upright rows
*for this weighted decline situps will be my main focus, but I will also use hanging leg raises, weighted side bends and the ab wheel, I will probably do 2-3 ab exercises per workout and always do the situps, with 1 or 2 of the others