Looks like I'm going back to Court. Yesterday was very interesting - long ass read, you better be bored to get into this.

[jh1]

Just dont let the conversation go down that road. make it plain and simple and make it clear you're letting her know what's going on because she is responsible for supervising the visits. she has a right to know this guy's history as well as your plan to make sure this guy isnt allowed in your daughter's presence. She's got to know what the rules are and why. that's all.

I talked to her yesterday. She cried. I can't talk to her like a robot and be cut and dry - she's the sweetest most real, most caring woman I've ever met in my life.

The x had lied to her about the results of her test in early November - so she found out about that during our coversation as well. I felt so bad for her - she loves her daughter so much... and loves her granddaughter.

Jnevin -

I constanly think about moving away, see what I wrote above about the mother in law... she's the only reason I stay. 4 Real.

 

[Smurfy]

I talked to her yesterday. She cried. I can't talk to her like a robot and be cut and dry - she's the sweetest most real, most caring woman I've ever met in my life.

The x had lied to her about the results of her test in early November - so she found out about that during our coversation as well. I felt so bad for her - she loves her daughter so much... and loves her granddaughter.

Jnevin -

I constanly think about moving away, see what I wrote above about the mother in law... she's the only reason I stay. 4 Real.

That really is sad and its a tough situation. Lucky for you and your daughter that this woman cares so much.