Looks like I'm going back to Court. Yesterday was very interesting - long ass read, you better be bored to get into this.

[jh1]

I think you're doing the right thing (obviously) with not wanting this douchebag around yoru daughter.

However, IMO you engaged this guy way too much. You dont have to explain yourself to him for why you are making this decision. You only have one thing to say to this guy: I dont want you around my daughter, end of story.

Beyond that, you shouldnt let him get you into a tit for tat, and you did this but you did this kind of thing. Youve got better things to do than waste your time and effort communicating with this guy. I'd ignore him from this point forward.

Totally agree.

I am like a child in that sense.

I do the same thing with just about anyone over anything.

I am easily baited and drug down into the most retarded debates.




Called her mother as well - while lil was napping. She was 100% on board - she had no idea that he was a convicted felon / drug dealer - the X didn't even tell her about her recent failed drug test. I am glad I had the coversation - I just feel bad they are caught up in this nonsense.

 

[bw1]

Typical of pussy drug dealers, all bark no bite.

Exactly. If he was going to do something he would of already done it, not sent it in a "text message" that can e saved. lol

 

[Cal_21]

Re: Looks like I'm going back to Court. Yesterday was very interesting - long ass rea

Exactly. If he was going to do something he would of already done it, not sent it in a "text message" that can e saved. lol

lol. Seriously.


P.s. Good luck JH. I'm sure eventually the judge will see your daughter belongs with you. I hope it's sooner rather than later too.

 

[jh1]

Re: Looks like I'm going back to Court. Yesterday was very interesting - long ass rea

lol. Seriously.


P.s. Good luck JH. I'm sure eventually the judge will see your daughter belongs with you. I hope it's sooner rather than later too.

I already have full custody. She has supervised visitation per my good graces. I am the sole custodian - as my lawyer says 'JH1 is in charge'.

 

[Cal_21]

Re: Looks like I'm going back to Court. Yesterday was very interesting - long ass rea

I already have full custody. She has supervised visitation per my good graces. I am the sole custodian - as my lawyer says 'JH1 is in charge'.

That's good to hear orb.

Hope this thing with "Steve" gets resolved in a favorable manner for you.

p.s. I will punch him in the spine for karma

lol jk

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Dam I read that all I hope things go your way J I am pretty sure they will they have thus far. Your ex makes me ill just thinking about what she is pissing away all the time with that sweet little girl of yours. At least JH2 has you one hell of a great father.

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

Jh1, you're a good dad, and all that other stuff swole said. =)

 

[chewyxrage]

Damn man. Good luck in court, I don't see there being any issues with getting a protection order. This guys sounds like a tool, albeit possbily dangerous.

Like smurf said, don't fuckin waste time communicating with this guy. All those texts, just a waste of time. You don't want to provoke him into doing something stupid, either. Let your lawyer do the talking.

 

[all the whey]

No use in debating with him. He has no Idea what is going on.

She is telling him you got her hooked, your taking her daughter, your taking everything from her, etc.

He will believed it because she is giving him pussy, and he will have to play hero.


Everytime my friends go anywhere we always here some broad telling how bad her husband, boyfriend, ex, etc is. It makes me sick. I am glad I don't believe them anymore.

 

[gonelifting]

Holy shit. This is like a movie.

First, JH1, you're a good father, man! Keep fighting. Much props and respect to you.


I do agree with Smurfy. I'm a man of few words. Let them figure it out after the fact. As long as I gave the words, they'll eventually put 2 + 2 together. Speak softy... and get results. Period. But I understand the emotion involved. No one is in your shoes. You're doing good considering...

Personally, I would fear these threats. These people have nothing better to do with their time. It's their life, their lifestyle, the people they know do these things. etc... So I wouldn't just brush it off. Just be carefull. Stay safe.
You're a smart guy, you know what to do, especially with staying on the right side of the law doing it.

OT question, How do you pay the lawyer? Is it per hour, per phone call, per case? Weekly? Monthly? You seem to pick up the phone and call him out of the blue, and he gives you legal advise. How does that work out in terms of his fee? thanks.


Good luck man! The biggest reward is your daughter growing up healthy and happy from all of this.