equal rights for men

[Austin316]

LOL see the whole thing is I'm not bashing women, my point was to show you that men aren't the only evil SOB's in this world women are JUST as bad

I judge people on what they do and who they are not by their gender, I won't defend slime ball men, and I won't defend women that are the same, I will condemn them both just as much, I was showing examples of how despite these mothers being much worse parents then the fathers, they were still given custody by the state

My grandma raised children that resent her and want nothing to do with her, the other woman I talked about is doing the same thing to her children

Do you realize how out of the loop you come across BW? You can't and should not expect anything but negative responses to your posts the way that you deliver them. You DO come across as HATING men even though I know thats not totally the case, I just thinkg, and its my opinion, that you let ONE MAN seriously damage your outlook on the rest of us and its a damn shame

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Hello - he makes over 100,000 per year. He only pays me 143$ p/wk.

I was making just over 300$ PER WEEK and I paid 105$ per week.

So yes, I paid more. We are not even talking about the money I paid upfront that I will never ever reclaim.

Jesus. I'm talking dollar amount here. Taking me 2 pages to get a staright answer....
143 is more then 105. We not talking ratios or percentages.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have to go to bed now...

But please someone do the math and post up how much $20,000 divided by 6 months equals in a weekly childsupport payment?

Then tell me if it was more than $143.00 per week.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

20,000 dollars divided by six months equals how many dollars per week?

That's the most expensive child support I've ever heard of.
A judge made you pay that?

 

[Daisy_Girl]

LOL

YES - if both parents have to work - they are straight up dumb. How did I manage to stay home with my kids? I had four in five years and neither my ex or I had a college degree? We owned two homes AND a business that we began at the height of the recession.

I can't even believe I am getting involved in this, but I take EXTREME offence to this.

YOUR decision to not work is simply that - YOUR decision. What an egotistical statement to call other people "dumb" for working. That is THEIR choice. It is not stupidity or anything of the sort.

You made your choices, based on what you thought was best. Let others do the same.

I plan on working full-time next year when I have my first child. Am I stupid? A bad parent?

NO. Actually, HELL NO.

I love my job. I want to keep working because it is important to me. Does this make my child LESS important? NO. Does this make me stupid? NO.

 

[hamstershaver]

LOL

YES - if both parents have to work - they are straight up dumb. How did I manage to stay home with my kids? I had four in five years and neither my ex or I had a college degree? We owned two homes AND a business that we began at the height of the recession.

Please, again - I beg you... make more intelligent arguements so we can BEGIN to have an interesting debate.

Ultercast doesnt seem to have trouble holding his own.

Maybe you should go back to asking about how my kids like France.

what about parents that have to work in order to support their kids and put food on the table and pay their bills? you call them dumb for working
you act like eveyone is in your old situation, owning their own business and have enough money for 2 houses, and then you tell me to make an intellingent argument?
wow

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I have to go to bed now...

But please someone do the math and post up how much $20,000 divided by 6 months equals in a weekly childsupport payment?

Then tell me if it was more than $143.00 per week.

you weren't made to pay that upfront, where you?
Just settle this last point....

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have to go to bed now...

But please someone do the math and post up how much $20,000 divided by 6 months equals in a weekly childsupport payment?

Then tell me if it was more than $143.00 per week.

For those six months I paid a grand total of $769.23 PER WEEK.

So motherfucking YES I paid more than 143$ per week.

This does not include the 2 years back support he owed me. Or the fact that I left a 13 year marriage with no college degree, very little job skill or experience (stayathome mom doesnt really impress on a resume).

 

[Eringobraugh]

I did it for a few reasons.

A - He wouldnt divorce me until I gave him everything.

B - My kids were BEGGING me to make the fighting stop.

C - I was lied to by attorneys - NEVER ONCE did they tell me that if I yielded custody he could be a prick and keep the kids from me FOR NO REASON. I was told that my rights as the non-custodial parent would be protected, that if he even TRIED to interfere he would be clamped down so hard by the court that he would wish he was never born.

And now, none of it makes a damned bit of difference. That bastard used my kids to try and fuck with me for nearly 5 years. But since he didn't murder anyone he isn't entitled to less than 50/50 split. I will NEVER see any of the money I gave up. And a court could give a fuck who watches my kids.

So.... you were all saying?

So basically you made like really really really dumb decisions lol.
I mean really dumb hahaha!!
And I think youre the first mom I met that didnt fight for custody of their kids and handed them over, weird.

 

[Bikini Mod]

you weren't made to pay that upfront, where you?
Just settle this last point....

I already said it a thousand times

I PAID CHILDSUPPORT UP FRONT IN THE AMOUNT OF 20,000!

Yes... I did. And this is money that neither I or my children will EVER see again.

Can I go to sleep now?.... or do you have any other questions?