Does Your Husband/Wife Give You as Much Sex As You Would Like to Have?

[curling]

Machine,

That was some good advice. Maybe I do need to do that stuff more often. I just feel flowers are such a waste of money though. I mean 50 bucks for roses that dies just seems silly to me. I would rather by her some clothes or take her out to a nice dinner.

But other than that you do make some valid points. I will try some of those and see how they turn out( I did bring her breakfast in bed yesterday) . You're right they are turned on by weird shit like that. She even once told me it turns her on to see me working around the house. WEIRD!!!

 

[Milhouse]

Just to add to this another problem is frankly most people guys and girls suck at sex.
While I dont mean in most cases flat out suck what I mean is most dont look beyond the missionary position and are afrid to get any imagination.

Guys your not as good as you think you are and yes women do fake orgasms
And
Girls you cant just lie there either and think because you have a muff that you are all that great either.

Spice it up motherfuckers

And Guys go down on your chick she will appreciate it
Abd girls give a brother a blowjob too he will appreciate that too.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Machine,

That was some good advice. Maybe I do need to do that stuff more often. I just feel flowers are such a waste of money though. I mean 50 bucks for roses that dies just seems silly to me. I would rather by her some clothes or take her out to a nice dinner.

But other than that you do make some valid points. I will try some of those and see how they turn out( I did bring her breakfast in bed yesterday) . You're right they are turned on by weird shit like that. She even once told me it turns her on to see me working around the house. WEIRD!!!

Curling, there is a ton of solid info on www.marriagebuilders.com -- some articles specifically related to this very topic. Start with the basic principles sections if you have some time.

Before I stumbled on that site, I didn't realize how wrong I was doing some things. I've never been happier in any relationship than I am now.

As far as sex, sex only becomes important in a relationship when there is an issue related to it. If all is well (sex-wise) other topics take priority, but when it's off -- then it becomes important quick.

Honest communication is very necessary, but there is a host of other things vital to a well-rounded relationship.

Communication
Defining specifically what your needs are, and more importantly, how to meet those needs
Striving to meet your partner's needs
Avoiding disrespectful judgement
100 percent honesty on everything
What to do (and not to do) when arguing
and so much more...

It's a lot of work. No lie. But the yields are beyond expression.

 

[curling]

I will check out that site. Well it sounds like you do all these things do you get enough sex even when your on a cycle?

 

[GaryWary]

Just to add to this another problem is frankly most people guys and girls suck at sex.
While I dont mean in most cases flat out suck what I mean is most dont look beyond the missionary position and are afrid to get any imagination.

Guys your not as good as you think you are and yes women do fake orgasms
And
Girls you cant just lie there either and think because you have a muff that you are all that great either.

Spice it up motherfuckers

And Guys go down on your chick she will appreciate it
Abd girls give a brother a blowjob too he will appreciate that too.

You really shouldn't be watching other couples have sex...

 

[Arioch]

Yes. My wife is very athletic. And we are both mid-cycle right now.

Life is good.

 

[Citruscide]

My girlfriend and I have sex very often... I am pleased with her in every aspect of our relationship.

C

 

[HappyScrappy]

sometimes I want to masturbate more, but I just don't have it in me. I know that my hands sometimes resent this, but there is only so much time in a day.

 

[rudedawg]

Ok I can see how you got your user name.

I was in a hurry. Actually that name comes from a sweatshirt I bought down in Ciudad de Obregon when I was playing down there..... Had a bad ass pic of a bull mastiff on the front and they spelled dog "dawg". Cost me something like $30,000 pesos which at the time was 10 - 12 bucks.

As for your topic.........

It is not a one person fault or no fault in my opinion. Marriage is a union so it takes two. It is up to both to keep the sex exciting, but I don't think that necessarily means you have to go to hotels and get it on in the elevator or on the roof (which is very exciting btw).

Have you told your wife that you want more sex? If so what did she say? Maybe there is an underlying reason she doesn't want to play as much as you do.

As for what The Machine said......definately. I heard someone once say that if men gave the service that they offered before the marriage (when we trying to land them) the divorce rate would go down ten fold. In other words.......do what got ya there. Write a note to her and put it on her car seat, put it on the mirror, clean the house on a whim and DON'T expect her to give you kudos for doing it, cut fresh flowers for her (why buy them) we have 8 rose bushes that work great, keep the petals, throw them all around the tub and give her a bath (DO NOT do it just to have sex though) try not to even touch her in a sexual way. I could go on and on and on but I am sure you did this type of stuff when you were dating or engaged just try to remember it and do it.

My answer is still YES!!!

 

[Milhouse]

You really shouldn't be watching other couples have sex...

LOL,

But as Groundskeeper Willy says "Hooot, but I cant help it, Everrry Scots man does it"