Does Your Husband/Wife Give You as Much Sex As You Would Like to Have?

[curling]

I mean do you get it enough to totally satisfy you? I mean do you ever make advances and she/he says not tonight or I am tired. I mean why is it in your first years of marriage you do it like rabbits and then as time goes on it tapers off and eventually you are only getting it two or three times a week and sometimes worse I have heard from some friends.

In otherwords, I wonder if the reason some men stray is because sex has gotten boring to the man. Or even maybe wives don't give their husbands enough sex. So while it is wrong for a man to cheat on his wife, it is partly the wives fault too for not being a more consistant lover. I just wonder if there has ever been a study done on this and what it would show.

btw The same goes for a man not giving his wife enough or enough good sex.

I know this is going to be hard topic for the girls to swallow on this one especially if they are married to a man that is always hard due to excessive testosterone being so common on this board.

I think you should to more wilder and erotic things with your spouse to keep the sex side of the marriage more exciting and fun. Like wilder lingerie or doing it in strange places(like outside or in a car instead of ALWAYS the bedroom) would do wonders for saving marriages.

Oh btw I am not planning on messing around on my wife I love her dearly but I wish we had more sex(average 3 or 4 times a week I would like it everyday) She hates it when I am on a cycle.

Anyway do you get enough?(also if you wouldn't mind please state how long you been married too) Me and my wife have been married for 17 years.

Oh mods would you mind leaving this thread here instead of elite between the sheets. Thanks.

 

[rudedawg]

Damn I thought this was going to be a couple lines like yes or no........didn't know there was going to be a book involved.

Answer: YES

 

[curling]

Damn I thought this was going to be a couple lines like yes or no........didn't know there was going to be a book involved.

Answer: YES

Ok I can see how you got your user name.

 

[Taps]

Answer: I don't have a girlfriend, but my right hand gives it up as much as I want.

 

[FreakMonster]

That's why you need to marry a girl that is adventurous in bed.

If my girl was giving me sex less and less everyday I'd be pissed.

But I'd probably just throw a couple Viagra's in her drink!!

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I think most men forget to do the things for their wives that made things romantic, and in turn made their wives want to engage in sex in the first place. There has to be an environment of intamacy. The same things that stimulate men don't stimulate women.

When was the last time you got her flowers without expecting sex or because you had to? When was the last time you left her a little lover's note on the refrigirator? How about walking her to the door and waving her off as she leaves for work... an unexpected card just to say I love you, breakfast in bed, etc...

Sometimes getting more sex equals offering to do the shopping, watching the kids while your wife goes out to have her nails done, doing a load of laundry, and yes -- even scrubbing the occassional toilet. These are things we should be doing as equal partners anyway.

Think about her and the relationship, do things unselfishly, and sex will fall into place.

I've been married about 4 years, have seen her for a total of 10.

 

[Raina]

I my case it's opposite. He turns me down at least half the time. He's more bitchy than most women I know. Oh well, I can always take care of myself....

 

[Crazier]

That was a damn good post curling... and I agree with you man.
There would be no reason to stray if needs were being met. Communication is vital to ensure both parties are, and remain happy and satisfied.

But, what would I know about that, huh? I'm the one that split up with my babies mom when she was 2. Damn I've learned a lot since then.
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[GaryWary]

I get whatever I want. She nice like that.

 

[Milhouse]

This is why I am not married lol.

Seriously though, its like that in all relationships longer then 1 year married or not.
The minute a gal has a guy wrapped around her finger well he is getting it only when she decides(even though its like this at the beginning)

Think abou this girls before you get your panties in a knot. Why is it guysbring flowers and gifts and shit to you and you dont do this shit like this for us all the time? Because once you hook us on your poonie you own us and we have to work to get laid.
After a while we smarten up and just realize we aint getting it all the time and that is why the flowers and gifts are relagated to special occasions(holidays anniversaries, after arguments)

Personally I would rather sit around and jerk off most of the time and possibly pick up a new honey every 4-8 weeks then go thru this charade.

On a serious note though, in relationships its alway lack of good honest communication between one or mostly both parties that cause this. Always comes down to communication. If you cant communicate your wants and needs and ask your other half's thiers without comfort, lack of fear and with total blunt honesty no matter the consequence then you are in for a downhill ride.

Sex is only one part of a real relationship but a very important part of the puzzle