Can't drink with the gf

[Buddy_Christ]

Some people just don't get along when drinking -- some just don't make good drunks....

but you make a wonderful Lush, dontcha?

 

[from zero]

Don't know about that. Drinking can make you act on any impulse. For example, I may think that my wife's best friend is hot (and christ, she is), but I would never do anything with her because I love my wife.

Now if I was really, really, drunk...who knows?

Right. "Underlying reason."
Acting on impulse and changing who one is are two different things.

 

[jenscats5]

but you make a wonderful Lush, dontcha?

You know it, baby.......

 

[velvett]

Don't know about that. Drinking can make you act on any impulse. For example, I may think that my wife's best friend is hot (and christ, she is), but I would never do anything with her because I love my wife.

Now if I was really, really, drunk...who knows?

But it doesn't change that you think your best friend's wife is hot.

SO - alcohol won't change what you think about the friend's wife but the alcohol may impair your better judgement not to want to shag her becasue you "love" your wife.

The underlying feeling never changed - just your behavior in result of the situation.

 

[from zero]

But it doesn't change that you think your best friend's wife is hot.

SO - alcohol won't change what you think about the friend's wife but the alcohol may impair your better judgement not to want to shag her becasue you "love" your wife.

The underlying feeling never changed - just your behavior in result of the situation.

Great minds think alike, eh?

 

[velvett]

Great minds think alike, eh?

Today's word "naughty" was brought to you by the warm fuzzies that just seeing FZ name creates.

 

[from zero]

Today's word "naughty" was brought to you by the warm fuzzies that just seeing FZ name creates.

 

[Bobber]

LOL

We just have a lot sex when intoxicated.
Then again we don't argue sober either.

Maybe your relationship just has an expiration date and it only comes out when ya'll are intoxicated enough to express how you really feel. I would suggest you both brush up on those communication skills so when you're out for dinner you can have a glass of wine with dinner and not want to ripe each other's eyes out.

Good Luck.

The relationship is less than 2 months old. When we don't drink we don't have a single problem and it's pretty damn close to perfect. We can also have some wine together, it's only when true drunkness sets in when the problems occur.

I have been single for over 2 years and she has just about never been single in her life so I think I am just having problems adjusting. My birthday is on Friday and we were supposed to go out and do the relationship thing but now that she is out of town my room mates have informed me that they are having 2 kegs in my honor and my closest friends will be there which means beligerence. She gets back tomorrow and I have absolutely no idea how to go about telling her I am going to stay here and I really don't want her to come. Any suggestions?

 

[crew9]

But it doesn't change that you think your best friend's wife is hot.

SO - alcohol won't change what you think about the friend's wife but the alcohol may impair your better judgement not to want to shag her becasue you "love" your wife.

The underlying feeling never changed - just your behavior in result of the situation.

Now I'm the one who gets to say DING DING DING winner

 

[velvett]

The relationship is less than 2 months old. When we don't drink we don't have a single problem and it's pretty damn close to perfect. We can also have some wine together, it's only when true drunkness sets in when the problems occur.

I have been single for over 2 years and she has just about never been single in her life so I think I am just having problems adjusting. My birthday is on Friday and we were supposed to go out and do the relationship thing but now that she is out of town my room mates have informed me that they are having 2 kegs in my honor and my closest friends will be there which means beligerence. She gets back tomorrow and I have absolutely no idea how to go about telling her I am going to stay here and I really don't want her to come. Any suggestions?

Let's see.

tomorrow's Thursday - call her and tell her that your friends have planned this guy's night birthday bash and that you would like to spend time with her for your birthday (yadha yadha) on Thursday (so you can have some time alone - without the "guys") - if Thurs doesn't work try for Sun (you'll be worthless on Saturday don't bother). You have to tell her ASAP in case she had made plans for your b-day or was going to make them.


2 months - that's a pretty new thing and her response to the above will tell you A LOT about her maturity level and neediness level. People who are never ever single and go from relationship to relationship (no not sexual relationships) tend to be needy.