your girl talking to other guys about sex

[Deleted member 33117]

VDOP, I do not know him. He has a long distance relationship right now, and she lives near me. I'm serious, and this isn't a joke.

You stated that I did was wrong. What is wrong about talking about sex to a woman who asks you? I was bumping to make sure he sees it, I posted and it drifted to the second page of the thread in a couple of hours. I think he needs to read what I said and take my advice into consideration.

 

[Vulgar_Display_Of_Power]

I dont know all the details(nor do I care to), but the whole thing sounds shitty to me.

Kinda seems like you are rubbing his nose in it. Maybe Im just hyper-sensitive to certain things, but arent you the same person who told the guy who's wife killed herself to "hang in there"

++Yes, surprise everyone the mystery man here is BBF.++That seems totally uncalled for, an you cant say you were not trying to glamorize yourself.

If the part about you two knowing each other a few days is true(and you knew she ad a BF) than this conversation is totally uncalled for in any light. I really doubt she was just passing you on the street and struck up a conersation about such.

Anyway, I get sick of players(like yourself if the shoe fits) pulling shit like this. Ive recently had this type of situation come up between two guys I consider close friends. My opinion is there is always some random bitch you can fuck, but to knowingly fuck a friend is unforgivable.

Later..

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

BBF=DJ ?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

VDOP-Well, I do not know him, other than having read his post on EF, and I didn't know her bf posted here the first time I spoke to her. Anywho, I think he is over-reacting. Either he trusts her or he doesn't, and I think he needs to mellow out. She isn't cheating on him.

The reason I said "Yes, surprise everyone the mystery man here is BBF" is because alot of people who post on the same threads with me on Elite Between the Sheets posted here. I've been acused by some of them with being "obsessed with sex".

 

[Deleted member 33117]

ShadowFalcon, no Depressive Juice and I are not the same person. I do not have any alters here.

 

[flex123]

Some people think of sex as being a private thing. maybe DJ doesn't approve of his sexual behavior with his girl being talked about with someone else.

BBF if DJ doesn't approve of you talking about sex with his girl, than i'd back off.

If my girl was talking to some guy and I told him to stop and he continued to so so and told me I was insecure, I'd take that as a very offensive gesture.

 

[JuicePimp]

Seems like this thread needs to go away. C'mon guys.

 

[plornive]

Whoa...

Whenever I get the slightest bit serious, I don't tolerate situations like this.

To me, it means that she's feeling apprehensive about the relationship. Therefore, I feel apprehensive in response.

Contrary to what Daisy_Girl said, I think a female should often be able to discern what does and does not bother her man. It doesn't take a fucking psychologist or psychic to see the problem here.

Having said that, there have been situations where my girlfriend talked with a guy about sex (he told her, she didn't share, supposedly) and even went out with him for lunch and dinner. I wasn't bothered because I could tell she was not attracted to him in the least and she was not telling him about sex with me.

It doesn't sound like the same thing here. Obviously she knows that it bothers you DJ, as you said, you told her it bothers you.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

flex123, well that's just it. He has never met or spoken to me. DJ only knows me from Elite, but hasn't sent me a PM or anything asking me to not talk to his girl.

I had another reason for answering this thread by the way. The guy is on here talking about "his girl" and "some guy", like they are hypothetic people, and there are people saying "Oh I'd kick both of their asses." Well, both of us are reading this. These two people are both EF members. I met her here. I find it offensive that I have guys sitting here saying they would kick my ass, with me reading it, for talking to a girl from this web site, with no intention of fucking her, who has a boyfriend who lives 1000+ miles away. So you guys are saying you would buy a plane ticket, and fly from California to Texas, show up at my door, tell me you are going to kick my ass, and get shot on my front porch, because I talked to your girlfriend? Get a fucking clue people.

 

[alien amp pharm]

who has a boyfriend who lives 1000+ miles away.

That would be a problem with me if I were the boyfriend.