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whether its in person, over the phone, via e-mail or message. do you guys think this type of friendship is innocent? say someone who she is attracted to and knows that person a little over a week?
 
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DepressiveJuice said:
whether its in person, over the phone, via e-mail or message. do you guys think this type of friendship is innocent?

that's going to lead them to hardcore fucking. only need a little bit to get the imagination going and once that gets going then she is spreading her legs faster than Michael Johnson running the 200m.
 
jackangel said:


what's up hansel

lookn sharp n0ugat

HI bro, good to see you around posting again:)

LOL@ your sig btw

Well after being unemployed for a while (by choice) Im working for a company now that deals in real estate finance software...fun stuff.

Whats new with you , still smoking herb?
 
hardrock said:
If she's giving advice, fine. Otherwise she(and he) would need dentures.

she was asking for advice and talking about fetishes
 
DepressiveJuice said:


she was asking for advice and talking about fetishes

Sounds to me like they are feeling eachother out, learning about what eachother likes... this wouldnt sit real well with me
 
It's inappropriate. A group discussion maybe, but when it comes to coworkers - a definite no, they will always think they have a shot and try something. Friends is one thing if it's when you're around and part of the discussion. Sounds like she is letting him know she likes to fuck. She's getting him interested and thinking about it.
 
Depends on the amount of discussions. If it was a one time thing. Then It`s fine.They`re adults and had the conversation. But if it`s a daily or weekly get together or phone call about it... Then it`s a "sex talk friend" and it will go further (maybe).
 
fuck that... she doesn't need to be talking to him about sex and fetishes, and dude would need a neck brace
 
I can't ever remember meeting a girl and talking about sex early on where she didn't eventually make it real obvious she wanted to fuck - boyfriend or not.
 
exactly

sex talk = I like to fuck, I like to get dirty and I want you to know so you will take it as a hint. aka fuck me.
 
how about a question for the ladies? if your man asked you to break off a (4-6 day old) relationship with someone and you agreed to it, would you go behind your man's back and talk to him and his friend (someone you dont even know) about sex?

velvet's remark is coming back to haunt me
 
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If you have told her that you are not comfortable with this relationship, then she needs to cut it off. Period. If she KNOWINGLY is doing something that causes you pain then she is a heartless bitch that is begging to be dumped.

If you have NOT told her, then IMO you have no reason to be upset. She can't read your mind, so until you tell her how you feel she isn't doing anything wrong. So tell her!
 
i've told her twice before. and she told me, twice, she would break off contact
 
She's obviously doing it to get attention from these guys and liking it. I wouldn't be suprised if something doesn't happen or has already.
 
I agree with Daisy Girl.

Was this just talk in general (e.g., yeah, I don't understand people who are into that. Sounds weird to me [maybe they saw the same movie/tv show]? Or was it more of an "oh, I really love it when a guy (fill in blank of whatever you want) to me!" discussion? There's a difference in intent.

If my husband came up to me and said "I don't like the friendship you have with Bryan (or Andy or Dave or Chris)." I'd find out what about it makes him uncomfortable. I'd try not to do things that made him uncomfortable; however, I wouldn't give up a long-term friendship either when there was nothing for him to be worried about. OTOH, if it was someone I just met and I had been misbehaving (and you know when you have been) then I'd honor his request (and aplogize and proove to him how much more he means to me).

If I intended to maintain a friendship, though, I would never do it behind his back. I'd be open about it.

Since your GF has only known this guy a few days, her behavior leaves a lot to be desired. Yeah, I don't mind talking about sex with men, but that's with men I've known for a long time and who I consider friends. I trust them not to read anything into comments.

Curious, did your GF tell you about this conversation or did you hear about it from someone else?
 
She's known him a week, she thinks he's hot and they're already talking about sex. This is a recipe for disaster.
 
Dial_tone said:
She's known him a week, she thinks he's hot and they're already talking about sex. This is a recipe for disaster.

YES.

AND, he has told her it makes him uncomfortable. That is unacceptable IMO.
 
This is a train wreck looking for a hotel room to happen in.
 
like i said, she likes the attention and prob will or has done something - wouldn't surprise me at all. I hope she hasn't been meeting up with one of these homeboys on the side.
 
Ok, I feel I have to say something here. DJ, first of all, it is innocent. Your girl absolutely loves you, and told me she would never cheat on you to set the record straigt. Either you trust her or you don't bro. You need to work on your insecurity.

Secondly, I'm now in a relatoinship with someone, who I told I wouldn't sleep with other women. I never cheat, and have turned down no-strings attached sex from girls while in a relationship in the past. In any event we rarely talk anymore, even online, because she is worried that it hurts your feelings. Seriously bro, you need to mellow out. You have a great girl.

Yes, surprise everyone the mystery man here is BBF.
 
BBF-

If your telling the truth, this is just wrong man. And to bump it is even shittier.

IF your just being funny,and DJ is not a real life buddyof yours, its still just as shitty.

If you and Dj have that kind of relationship, then I openly apologize for expressing my opinion in this matter.
 
VDOP, I do not know him. He has a long distance relationship right now, and she lives near me. I'm serious, and this isn't a joke.

You stated that I did was wrong. What is wrong about talking about sex to a woman who asks you? I was bumping to make sure he sees it, I posted and it drifted to the second page of the thread in a couple of hours. I think he needs to read what I said and take my advice into consideration.
 
I dont know all the details(nor do I care to), but the whole thing sounds shitty to me.

Kinda seems like you are rubbing his nose in it. Maybe Im just hyper-sensitive to certain things, but arent you the same person who told the guy who's wife killed herself to "hang in there"

++Yes, surprise everyone the mystery man here is BBF.++That seems totally uncalled for, an you cant say you were not trying to glamorize yourself.

If the part about you two knowing each other a few days is true(and you knew she ad a BF) than this conversation is totally uncalled for in any light. I really doubt she was just passing you on the street and struck up a conersation about such.

Anyway, I get sick of players(like yourself if the shoe fits) pulling shit like this. Ive recently had this type of situation come up between two guys I consider close friends. My opinion is there is always some random bitch you can fuck, but to knowingly fuck a friend is unforgivable.

Later..
 
VDOP-Well, I do not know him, other than having read his post on EF, and I didn't know her bf posted here the first time I spoke to her. Anywho, I think he is over-reacting. Either he trusts her or he doesn't, and I think he needs to mellow out. She isn't cheating on him.

The reason I said "Yes, surprise everyone the mystery man here is BBF" is because alot of people who post on the same threads with me on Elite Between the Sheets posted here. I've been acused by some of them with being "obsessed with sex".
 
ShadowFalcon, no Depressive Juice and I are not the same person. I do not have any alters here.
 
Some people think of sex as being a private thing. maybe DJ doesn't approve of his sexual behavior with his girl being talked about with someone else.

BBF if DJ doesn't approve of you talking about sex with his girl, than i'd back off.

If my girl was talking to some guy and I told him to stop and he continued to so so and told me I was insecure, I'd take that as a very offensive gesture.
 
Whoa...

Whenever I get the slightest bit serious, I don't tolerate situations like this.

To me, it means that she's feeling apprehensive about the relationship. Therefore, I feel apprehensive in response.

Contrary to what Daisy_Girl said, I think a female should often be able to discern what does and does not bother her man. It doesn't take a fucking psychologist or psychic to see the problem here.

Having said that, there have been situations where my girlfriend talked with a guy about sex (he told her, she didn't share, supposedly) and even went out with him for lunch and dinner. I wasn't bothered because I could tell she was not attracted to him in the least and she was not telling him about sex with me.

It doesn't sound like the same thing here. Obviously she knows that it bothers you DJ, as you said, you told her it bothers you.
 
flex123, well that's just it. He has never met or spoken to me. DJ only knows me from Elite, but hasn't sent me a PM or anything asking me to not talk to his girl.

I had another reason for answering this thread by the way. The guy is on here talking about "his girl" and "some guy", like they are hypothetic people, and there are people saying "Oh I'd kick both of their asses." Well, both of us are reading this. These two people are both EF members. I met her here. I find it offensive that I have guys sitting here saying they would kick my ass, with me reading it, for talking to a girl from this web site, with no intention of fucking her, who has a boyfriend who lives 1000+ miles away. So you guys are saying you would buy a plane ticket, and fly from California to Texas, show up at my door, tell me you are going to kick my ass, and get shot on my front porch, because I talked to your girlfriend? Get a fucking clue people.
 
Alien, I agree. I would NEVER be in a long distance relationship. Anything over 100 miles is way to much, and even that would have to be very temporary for me.
 
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