your girl talking to other guys about sex

[2Shy]

I agree with Daisy Girl.

Was this just talk in general (e.g., yeah, I don't understand people who are into that. Sounds weird to me [maybe they saw the same movie/tv show]? Or was it more of an "oh, I really love it when a guy (fill in blank of whatever you want) to me!" discussion? There's a difference in intent.

If my husband came up to me and said "I don't like the friendship you have with Bryan (or Andy or Dave or Chris)." I'd find out what about it makes him uncomfortable. I'd try not to do things that made him uncomfortable; however, I wouldn't give up a long-term friendship either when there was nothing for him to be worried about. OTOH, if it was someone I just met and I had been misbehaving (and you know when you have been) then I'd honor his request (and aplogize and proove to him how much more he means to me).

If I intended to maintain a friendship, though, I would never do it behind his back. I'd be open about it.

Since your GF has only known this guy a few days, her behavior leaves a lot to be desired. Yeah, I don't mind talking about sex with men, but that's with men I've known for a long time and who I consider friends. I trust them not to read anything into comments.

Curious, did your GF tell you about this conversation or did you hear about it from someone else?

 

[Dial_tone]

She's known him a week, she thinks he's hot and they're already talking about sex. This is a recipe for disaster.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

She's known him a week, she thinks he's hot and they're already talking about sex. This is a recipe for disaster.

YES.

AND, he has told her it makes him uncomfortable. That is unacceptable IMO.

 

[Dial_tone]

This is a train wreck looking for a hotel room to happen in.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

This is a train wreck looking for a hotel room to happen in.

or a backseat.

 

[Jimsbbc]

like i said, she likes the attention and prob will or has done something - wouldn't surprise me at all. I hope she hasn't been meeting up with one of these homeboys on the side.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Ok, I feel I have to say something here. DJ, first of all, it is innocent. Your girl absolutely loves you, and told me she would never cheat on you to set the record straigt. Either you trust her or you don't bro. You need to work on your insecurity.

Secondly, I'm now in a relatoinship with someone, who I told I wouldn't sleep with other women. I never cheat, and have turned down no-strings attached sex from girls while in a relationship in the past. In any event we rarely talk anymore, even online, because she is worried that it hurts your feelings. Seriously bro, you need to mellow out. You have a great girl.

Yes, surprise everyone the mystery man here is BBF.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

bump

 

[Vulgar_Display_Of_Power]

BBF-

If your telling the truth, this is just wrong man. And to bump it is even shittier.

IF your just being funny,and DJ is not a real life buddyof yours, its still just as shitty.

If you and Dj have that kind of relationship, then I openly apologize for expressing my opinion in this matter.

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

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She shoul not be discussing sex with anyone other than you. IMO