I think if its your wife its really about Love and affection first then fun
whereareas if you pay someone its not about love or affection but rather carnal pleasure for ones own sake, thus one negates the humanity of the other and uses them as a use object for pleasure to be discarded
if you ever see a young prostitiute in a movie who is doing it cus she has no choice and is sad and being eaten away you will know what I saw ( I met a real girl in this predicatamant)
Damn, not even 24 hours, and I have a raging hard-on for no apparent reason.......... oh yeah, wait there is one, I haven't wrangled the wang! This is going to be harder (no pun intended ) than I thought.
I think if its your wife its really about Love and affection first then fun
whereareas if you pay someone its not about love or affection but rather carnal pleasure for ones own sake, thus one negates the humanity of the other and uses them as a use object for pleasure to be discarded
if you ever see a young prostitiute in a movie who is doing it cus she has no choice and is sad and being eaten away you will know what I saw ( I met a real girl in this predicatamant)
I believe you can enjoy this pleaure in such a way that both people are respected, and neither is "used."
I'd argue also that when you are fucking your wife, its not always about love and affection, that is a bunch of crap, many times its about primal urges and wanted to bust a nut.