I started out a year ago. My friends used to lift in high school and so when I moved in with them they had a bench and got me to lift with them. Their routine was benching monday wednesday and friday. Apparently that worked for them, back in highschool. Not knowing anything about lifting, I just followed them.
A few months after we all started, their consistency died off and I found myself lifting by myself a lot of the time. I decided to change my routine and made some gains faster. I started finding that I wasn't recovering as fast (as a result of a harder workout) so I cut out benching on wednesdays. Mondays and Fridays have been treating me good so far, and my bench weight goes up every 2-3 weeks since then.
I know, I haven't mentioned anything besides benching. Thats the biggest mistake a beginner can make I think. Most people want beach muscles and don't think about the rest of their body. I can be accused of that. Until I looked at my legs, and noticed how scrawny they are. I decided to try to take on a typical full body workout and only work each major body part once a week.
I havent' started this yet since I don't own a power rack, and I'm not a gym member yet. Hopefully I'll become one soon (thank you IRS for that nice refund
). I can't wait to get some squats and deads in.
Now, another short story. My neghibors bought a weight set. Actually it looks like their kids are using it. They'r eprobably about 15 or 16, and for one, I notice they're out there almost every day doing the same exercises. Second, it just looks like they're lifting wrong. Their bar is on the highest rack (the one used for incline bench presses) while they're doing flat bench presses.
I wanna give them some tips, but, I think it might be weird if some dude just goes up to their fence and starts giving them pointers.