Ok well I saw her last night and it was a disaster. I get in moods every so often where I just want to hurt people(I used to fight a lot, but I am working on it) and that's why I go out. I told my friends not to have any girls out with us cause I know the outcome and of course she is out at the bar we go to. I am pretty shitfaced before we even get there and continue to drink heavily while we are there. I ignore her for the first part of the night cause I had alterior motives on my mind and when I did talk to her I was a fucking asshole. I am told I made fun of her best friend and my friend ran her guy friends off in fear of getting their asses kicked. I tried calling and apologizing to her today but she didnt pick up so I left a message telling her how I didn't anticipate seeing her out last night and that 99% of the time I am the guy she thought I was. So as an outcome there might not be a chance to redeem myself.
Oak - I have never done abs in my life. I am thinking about starting because of the love handles.
Rnch - Will do even though I am still suspicious of your occupation.
Klueless - Thanks. Touch whatever you want...just bring a good bottle of vodka.
I hear you on the original post about drunk sex lasting so much longer. Happens to me often when sober but thats just cause I'll get too too turned on. Should have just told her she turned you on so much and you havent had sex in awhile so you were really excited, than waited a bit till you were ready to go at it again and it would last much longer.
For your second post aboutbeing a drunken ass.....I understand that one also, it sucks when you make a girl see you in a different light than she originally thought. Her not picking up is a sign that she was turned off by your ignoring her and than insulting her friend.
you sound like you'll be ok, and this chick doesnt sound like one youve been with long so just get another.