Come on guys! 35 isn't that old. You're only as old as you feel. Look at guys like Bill Pearl (who is 73) or Albert Beckles (who is around 65's). These guys look amazing. Personally, its my goal to look as good as Bill Pearl does at 73 when I'm 50. Don't let your age be a stumbling block for you. If you set your mind too it, both of you will continue to look better and better each year, and maybe when you are 55 you'll look better than you do now at 35. Its a matter of not only drive, but of believing in yourselves.