People stare..and its really annoying

[JJFigure]

I moved to a smaller gym, and I really don't have problems anymore. I used to get a lot of stares at the Gold's I used to train at - obnoxious staring that's hard to ignore - and that did bother me. I try to not train during prime hours anymore (mainly so I can hog the equipment) and I love the way people at this gym just kind of leave me alone. I think it's a matter of finding the right gym.

 

[Phemomena]

hehe... i used to train at a gym that was frequented by a lot of gay guys... i KNOW that a lot of them were intimidated by me

(the gay guys that were "buff" didn't stare, they usually came up and wanted to work in with me, share advice and whatnot, they were cool, but the little wimpy ones that were just there to pick up, i think they were jealous cuz their eye candy was more interested in me hehe)

the girls that did work out at my gym, most of them were the pink weight types, so i think they were a little put off by me... once in awhile one would ask me what i did to get my abs... i pointed to the squat rack and told them about 185

 

[Frackal]

People dont stare (at me) and its really annoying.



Maybe someday I'll be sportin' a bod that's stareworthy.

Wear less clothing

 

[Frackal]

Phenomena has nice skin

 

[Shak]

Phem -

I work out at a predominantly gay gym on the weekends and i love it - i never feel uncomfortable or get unwanted looks. too bad it's not closer to my work so that i could work out there every day.

 

[wilson6]

T-shirt that says, "Instead of looking at me, look at your fat ass or pot belly, and don't drop that weight on your foot".

W6

 

[SteelWeaver]

You crack me up W6! lmao!

Smurfy - whenver I see a girl leaner (easy) or with more muscles (not so easy) than me, I stare like hell (sideways, so she doesn't notice, or openly, and smile )

 

[gingersnap]

Smurfy, They are staring because you are good looking, trust me. I saw your pics and you are not too big, you look great. I would probably watch to see what you were doing so I could figure out how to get my body like that.....of course I would try not to stare

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

stares are all good. Take it in a positive way-- the girls prob wish they looked like you & the guys prob want to take you home

 

[Exoticsyren]

Don't worry, girl. If people stare it means you look good. Be proud and keep on pumping. I just flat out give compliments to other women rather than stare.



Exoticsyren