okay, so does anyone have this kind of luck with women?

[Cutiebaby]

Okay, so we all know my ex-wives both cheated on me with guys that were supposedly just friends. The first wife supposed friend was an ex bf from high school. The second was "just" a friend.

Then I date twice after the second wife and both times there was an ex who they were just friends with that they said the ex new about me and there was no way they were going back with them. However, they did.

So, I have been dating this gal now for 4 months and we are still dating. Anyway, 2 fridays ago (the 21st) she went home from school early, they had half days and she is a teacher, says she has 102.5 temp and tells me this at 1:30 in the afternoon. Okay, so I have no reason to not believe her, around 6 I ask her if can come over say hi, see how she is doing. She says not tonight baby I am not up for company. Okay, I can see that.

So, she says come over saturday. Saturday shows up and i txt her at 0730 to ask what tome to come over and she is like why are youi asking? I say so I can plan my day out. Anyway, go over at appointed time, spend the night, we spend sunday together shopping etc. So when we stop off to tan, I stay in the car and notice a wadded up receipt in the cup holder, my instincts tell to look at it so I do. It is a credit card receipt for lunch for two paid for by her ex bf to the tune of 77 bucks plus tip. In addition it is dated for the day she has the fever and for the time she has the fever. It also has on it the food she likes, margarita, creme brulee.

So, I ask her about it and she was like I don't know what its for. I tell her the date and she says, that he must have left it in the car when her dad took him to the airport saturday morning the 22nd cause she was too sick and she was supposed to take him and it must have been for when he and some her friends went out thursday the 20th, but that she didn't go cause she was either at school or home in bed. Then she says you thought i was cheating on you. I told her no, if i was I would have been pissed off. Actually I did think that. We didn't fight about it though. The rest of the day she is all over me.

Later that night I was looking in her car for a pair of missing socks of hers and found blockbuster receipts for the two movies we watched saturday that were dated for the 21st (the day the cc receipt was for) and paid for by her.

So, here is my dilema. I think I love this gal. I don't trust her ex bf (the dude threatened to kill himself when she tried to break up with him several times before she finally did. He supposedly knows all about me and knows there is no chance of her and him getting back together. The other thing is this dude is constantly calling, wanting her to do things with him and she acts like she has no interest. It seems sincere, but I am quite jaded.

So there are two scenarios

1. she did have lunch with him, spent the night to take him to the airport so she didn't have to get up early and drive 25 miles to get him or she didn't spend the night but still had lunch with him.

2. Same as number one except she screwed him as well. Her dad didn't take him that is for sure.

He didn't leave the receipt in the car on the way to the airport either. However, I believe a third scenario.

She may have had a fever ( i believe she did as she was sick from an allergic reaction) had lunch with him for taking him to the airport that friday cause she promised and he wadded up the receipt and left it there intentionally hoping I would find it and break up with her.

she swears he has no shot at the title and knows it, but I happened to read an email he sent her on the 25th. It said nothing of importance but he signed by saying have a good day baby. Now, you would have to be stupid to not know that he still wants to get back with cause friends just don't sign emails like that. Pet names between sexes are almost exclusively when your dating the person.

So, do I take this and see where it goes, maybe she is telling the truth and nothing is going on and figured i would just get upset knowing he was buying her lunch and taking him to the airport or she is lying to me.

But damn, three times in a row. How does anyone have that kind of luck. why can't ex's just figure it out and stop trying. there is a reason they are ex's

Wow I guess you have shitty luck...
Call me possessive and possibly a bit jealous whatever, there is no just friends that hang out and call each other baby...I dont have male friends and my hubby dont have female friends...
How about I help out and give you another option....You tell her to either tell him to take a hike and commit or you look for better luck else where..You claim to care for her and stuff, but do you really want to get hurt again? Face it it cannot be that worth it if she would tell you goodbye so she can keep "an old friend".....

 

[GoldenDelicious]

first, i dont believe in luck. sure, circumstance plays a part, but you should get as much good circumstance as bad. if youve been cheated on by 2 wives and been used as a rebound by the subsequent 2 girlfriends i would really strongly consider the possibility that you are 1) attracted to women predisposed to doing this stuff 2) attractive to women predisposed to doing such things 3) mismanaging your relationships, and thereby making them prone to women behaving in this way (ie seeking something/someone else)

the other thing is that your previous experiences have made you suspicious, and therefore needy. neediness is HUGELY unnattractive, and also, suspiciousness in regards to cheating undermines relationships massively

i think you should chat to a relationship counsellor/dating coach. seriously.

 

[heavy_duty]

Hire an investigator for a week to follow her around.

 

[heavy_duty]

watch the video's hahahahaaaaaaaaaa

http://www.cheaters.com/

 

[Dial_tone]

get...out....now

 

[javaguru]

She's cheating on you bro....

 

[needtogetarmy]

I say run... get out of there. Plenty of women out there... she wants to play games it seems like. But if you must stay then, hello ex wife #3 ! j/k

I agree with this.

This girl is crazy. You have bad luck picking them.

You need to find another woman. Someone you can trust.

 

[javaguru]

I agree with this.

This girl is crazy. You have bad luck picking them.

You need to find another woman. Someone you can trust.

Oxymoron with hawt wiminz....they all have a boat load of guys that are "just friends."

 

[abolish the weak]

She is a lying,worthless bitch. Most chicks who are sick would love for somebody to come over and take care of them. Funny how the receipt you find is for the exact day she says she was sick. Her father took her ex bf back to the airport in her car? Dude, what kind of Jerry Springer shit is this? Also, after reading your story, either you or the bitch contradict yourselves. You first said that the receipt was lunch for 2 at $77. In the next paragraph your saying her aliby was it was when he went out with some of her friends, PLURAL, DINNER, that night. Not the same story bro. You know whats going on bro, you just dont want to come to grips with it.

 

[abolish the weak]

Also, from the sounds of your story, she's not seeing him on the side. She's with him and your the side dish, grow some balls and drop her, NOW