Thanks guys (I loved spatts response...), it does feel like things are starting to come together. Bignate, thanks for the tips. Fyre is also working on the routine and poses with me, she really knows her stuff, we just havent gotten that far yet.
Those that asked about the diet, heres a basic run down
Meal 1 - 5 jumbo egg whites and baked potato
Meal 2 - oatmeam and whey shake
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Meal 3 - post W/O shake, 50grams dextrose, 40 grams whey
Meal 4 - 2 boneless skinless chicken breasts, baked potato
Meal 5 - can of tuna, low fat yogurt (supposed to drop dairy though) and some rice cakes
Meal 6 - can of tuna, maybe a few more rice cakes
Meal 7 - whey shake with water
Thats the jist of it. I do little things like add salsa to the tuna to make it edible