HAHAHA, last year before my ab tear there was this dude that worked behind the counter at the gym. Dork. There for a job, didnt work out ect...
My gym is in the middle of the road. Old people, hot chix, high school homos, college summer wannabe's. One serious dude per shift probably.
When my bro and I did things like rack pulls (405-585 range), or flat DB press (100-120 lb db range) We would obviously make a little noise, its a given. No one grunts or acts retarded, just dropping the DB's (rubber coated ones) as lightly as possible after a set ect. clanging of 4-6 plates a side on a BB ect ect.
This jerk off is looking at us during chest and decides to come over....
.....I knew before he ever got there he was going to say something about dropping the DB's. Which we do lightly, politely, and carefully. We dont throw them and act like assholes. He gets over, stands there, I stand up and look down at him and go "you need sumthin bro?" he just shook his head and walked back to the desk.
The point is, at the time I was 275 at 6'0" . Still not as thick and massive as JoeD but pretty fucking big and I also have huge traps which just adds to the visual. People look at me when I'm in that kind of shape like I have a 2 headed cock growing out of my forehead. So I can imagine JoeD in the YMCA.....jesus I'de love to be a fly on the wall