There's a guy where I work. He's 45 & plpays the swingers game. Divoced, but some steady G.F.s. He's probably had intercourse with 100 women in the 4 yrs I've known him. He won't have sex with them if he has to wrap it. He says it's their loss. Most of them don't even bring it up.
He won't have intercourse with the less attractive ones, but he'll eat them & let them blow him. That's kind of a reverse logic thing if you ask me.