Best Appetite suppreser...Depression, My girl has to many guy friends!

[gtaman]

Take it from this married guy - all women do not act this way. Even if there are a few jackass co-workers who may be deluded enough to try to get into her pants, the wife "gets" it that I know full well that's what these transparent idiots want. A few phone calls to our home by one guy elicited a subtle but clear response from me.

He no longer calls and of course when I meet him and look like I wouldn't waste much time snapping his neck in two if need be, I'm sure he thinks twice about his pathetic advances.

In other words, your woman is going to have guys after her - that's just human nature. But she needs to be sending out signals to you that there are no other men she wants to hang out with, and plenty of girlfriends. Those kinds of signals are just common courtesy bro!

It does seem like a lot of women are like this when they're younger. I don't think you're gonna be able to put up with it much longer! Get ready to unload her!

A buddy of mine was actually engaged to a woman who turned out to be just too damn friendly to everyone. There were so many people coming and going in her life and he did a gut check and realized that even if nothing appeared to be going on, he could not take the jealous feelings. So he ended it. 10 years later he is now happily married to someone else and has a kid.

I'm not talking about being a controlling SOB who doesn't let his GF have normal work or ordinary friendships - but if she is the kind of person who is always partying with different people including guys she doesn't know that well... she obviously won't think twice about what effects it might have on you.

 

[athlete03]

Not trying to be offensive, but in my experience girls that hang out with a shit load of guys are unscrupulous sluts. Unless these guys are gay or child hood friends, there's no excuse that they talk on the phone with eachother for hours unless there's an element of attraction. Don't try to change her, just get a new one. Why waste time if you're not married and you're not happy?

 

[gtaman]

Originally posted by athlete03:
Not trying to be offensive, but in my experience girls that hang out with a shit load of guys are unscrupulous sluts.

LOL you said it a lot quicker than I did. Well said.

God, I loved a couple of those kinds of girls when I was in college. So did a whole bunch of us. But only for a few days before we got dumped for the next guy!

 

[otis]

Is your chick hot looking? If so you should worry because you know what every straight guy wants with a hot babe! Need I say more?

 

[Fonz]

Damn, have any of you guys hear the word TRUST.

Until you do I highly doubt you'll have a stable
relationship.

Riker29 had by far the best answer.

Be a MAN, and not a child.

CN1, you actually follow Snoop's advice?????
Thats pathetic.

Godspeed

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Personally, I do have a couple of chick friends that are just friends, and they are fairly nice looking at that. And the thing is, that I am not looking to have sex with them at all. But it is only a couple that I have like that. The more she has, the more the chances are that she will do something with one of them.

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Got Needles?

 

[thelegacy]

I know exactly how you feel my ex-girlfriend was like that. I was jealous as hell but she was also wasnt the most trusting girl and i think she cheated on me. Lay down the law! One night i got really drunk and saw her at a party witth a guy and she would ignore me and hang around that guy. I got so pissed i threatened to kill the guy and he left by this time the alcohol had taken effect and i made my girl cry because she was so scared that i was going to hit her..

 

[GreekLegend]

SOME GOOD POINTS BROUGHT UP NEVERTHELESS. But you havent examined all the possbilities.

1. HONESTY. stay with the girl tell her it bothers you she hanging out with so many dudes which will get you nowhere. she will be less attracted to you she will see and hang wif guys more and just get you more and more despressed, with her possibly dumping u in the end.

2. END IT which will make you even more depressed as she will prolly hook up with 1 of them motherfuckers she has supposdly been friends with all this time and you will be angry as a motherucker and wanna kill both there asses

3. SICK CUNT . you keep seeing the bitch and have her on standby. As you dont want to hit a dry spell and have nothing when your all juiced up and horny as hell.. go to the gym , work , hang out wif ur mates, party, study, drink, pik up sluts be the happiest motherfucker out there . And if she calls she calls. get ur grove on then leave asap all cool and nonchalant and get bak to your priorites in life.

Ive been in this situation before many times and no3 is the fav as u can c .. dont let any bitch play u . U PLAY THE BITCHES. When the right girl comes along cherrish love and respect her with all ur heart. untill then ..... do what u gotta do

L8R DOG

 

[Mavy]

Wooo

Had to post one to this one bros!!!! Fisrt let me say this ... I agree with FONZ!! The number one word that you are forgetting here is TRUST! Without this ... you will always, always, always be insecure!! I just brike up with my girl (who was the utmost drop dead georgious chick i have evr had or seen!!). I couldn`t help but be jeaulos all the time as so many dudes would always be hitting on her and checking her out!! I played it very cool, as I new that she was into me!! ... But ... it still ate me up inside!! We broke up for other reasons (went out for 3 years, and started to grow apart. The only thing the we had in common was fucking!!! Thats all we really did! Which was great, but it was going nowhere.

When we split, ... i was totally depressed!! Literally fucked for weeks on end!! Lost a good 10 lbs! I just kept thinking that I was never going to get a chick as hot as her again in my life, as i was so attracted to her! ----- Let me tell you now... We broke up this valentines day (ironic eh!!) and now, April 26th, i am having a blast!! SUre i miss her every now and again, but my stress level has dropped so damn much because all of the jeauleuas feelings have left!! I am having blast meeting other women, and just had the best sex of my life last weekend! (a 3some with 2 georgeous chicks here in canada from germany!!) - it was an act of god!! You feel like a piece of shit for a while, then you feel much better like i do now!

The grass always looks greener on the other side my friend! Just remember ... its sad, but sex is a very important and very big factor for women as well as men. If these guy friends of hers are hot, and smooth, and you don`t trust her 100% with your life ... then she is definately gonna take a feed!!! You should know how knieving and cunning guys are ... just waiting for the opportunity man ... so my advice .. be carefull, and if u end up splitting!! You live , you learn and things get better!!

~~~out

 

[Mad Max]

Ryker did hit it right on the nose. But, if thats not your personality type then let her know that this is bothering you. Just see how she reacts, if she feels the need to play games get rid of her. If she wises up then fine keep her. And as one of those "friends" of a guys girl ,don't trust the guys. My ex- is my best friend and its hard to break old habbits especially when you were there first. Good luck.
---PEACE---Mad Max