need some advice - girl issue!

[OMEGA]

Omega this dude is cousins with one of her best friends so they have hung out before... I just thought it was wierd to invite him out too a bar when they supposedly have only hung out a handfull of times

it means she has a connection with him some how and wants him around.

you and I are guys bro, ask your self what his motives are.....

anyway Mom at dive bar = lame

I'm sorry but it doesn't sound like you trust her. End it now and save yourself the heartache

ding ding perfect answer

 

[HeartBreaker]

If you think she might be cheating she is probably cheating... the best way to deal with this situation is to F*** some random B**** so that you are both cheaters. Then you wont have to break up with her because you are a cheater too and you can both live happily ever after f****** each other and other people!

 

[HeartBreaker]

P.S. Why do guys invite girls they barely know to bars? BECAUSE THEY WANT TO F*** THEM! Why do girls invite guys the barely know to bars? BECAUSE THEY WANT TO F*** THEM! dont be naive

 

[-SD-]

Your first mistake was getting engaged.

 

[iron_matt-CB]

Fuck man... I don't have solid proof she's cheating so how can I walk out on her and my 2 kids based on what I believe and don't know is a fact??

 

[Smurfy]

ok so my fiancee last week on a sunday tells me she wants to go out with her mother for a drink (her mom had just gotten back from hong kong) so i said sure...she goes out with her mom to this dive bar which i wasnt expecting to begin with, i mean her mom does play in a band and frequents those places quite often but its not somewhere i want my girl! tons of horny sloppy mofos that i would love to pound out...anyway she leaves her facebook on the computer at home and i see a message she sends to this kid that says "beachcomber" 80's night" "hello?" this kid is a good looking guy and they are facebook friends but thier not like best buddies or anything so i thought wasvery strange and went on a fucking tear, i called her out on it and she was just like whats the big deal hes a friend my mom is talking to all her local friends ad i just wanted to chill...well i ended up going down there after having my cousin come by to take care of my 2 little girls who are both with this girl!! i get there and she is fuking bombed, the kid wasnt there and i even saw a reply earlier to here message where he goes "??" kind of like wtf are u talking about to her...so my fucking mind is spinning here....i met this kid and he is a tool but never the less a good lookin guy that hey she might be attracted to...she claims that hes just a friend and that im acting insercure about the whole deal....says she loves me all the time, we have great sex constantly! and she wants to marry me badly, she is always bringing it up and trying to plan it....my heart tells me nothing is going on but i dont know if i am insercure or what but i cant stop thinking about maybe somthing is going on!!! fuck man,,,someone gimme some advice


on a side note i would think it would pretty fucked up if she invited this kid out in front of her mother and started making out with him or something..but hey you never know!

also forgot to mention i ran into this kid the othr night at a bar and str8 up asked him wtf is up...he was like "bro nothing is going on, ive only seen michelle around 5-6 times we are facebook friends, dude i understand where you are comin from it does look wierd and i would react the same way, but nothing is up"

you're being insecure.

 

[lookinfit75]

I missed the part where she invited him. How come you weren't there? I think if she invited him and didn't mention it to you then that part wouldn't be cool. You being left in the dark about that.

+1
She should NOT be inviting him to a bar and NOT telling you about it. If his fiancee's mom is a musician she might be one loose chick herself (trust me, I am a musician as well so I know just how loose women musicians can be) so that is not very reasuring. The whole scenario is screaming of covertness and when you are in a relationship there should always be transparency.
Sorry ladies but I don't think he is being insecure. If your man let's you go and hang out with some dude at a dive bar for "drinks" and is cool with it AFTER the fact that he found from sources other than your own mouth then he either doesn't care enough about you to give a shit if you are fucking someone else or more than likey is fucking someone else so he doesn't give a shit about you. The only other scenario is that he is so hen-pecked and pussy whipped that he doesn't have the balls to say something.
Bro, for now you don't have proof so don't go saying stupid shit that can either hurt your relationship or give her reason to cover her tracks. Just chill, keep your eyes open and your mouth shut until the time is right if ever. Hopefully she isn't doing anything to jepordize the family you two have created and you have to be absolutely 100% sure with proof that she is doing something before you do anything. Never just go on a hunch.

 

[75th]

ok so my fiancee last week on a sunday tells me she wants to go out with her mother for a drink (her mom had just gotten back from hong kong) so i said sure...she goes out with her mom to this dive bar which i wasnt expecting to begin with, i mean her mom does play in a band and frequents those places quite often but its not somewhere i want my girl! tons of horny sloppy mofos that i would love to pound out...anyway she leaves her facebook on the computer at home and i see a message she sends to this kid that says "beachcomber" 80's night" "hello?" this kid is a good looking guy and they are facebook friends but thier not like best buddies or anything so i thought wasvery strange and went on a fucking tear, i called her out on it and she was just like whats the big deal hes a friend my mom is talking to all her local friends ad i just wanted to chill...well i ended up going down there after having my cousin come by to take care of my 2 little girls who are both with this girl!! i get there and she is fuking bombed, the kid wasnt there and i even saw a reply earlier to here message where he goes "??" kind of like wtf are u talking about to her...so my fucking mind is spinning here....i met this kid and he is a tool but never the less a good lookin guy that hey she might be attracted to...she claims that hes just a friend and that im acting insercure about the whole deal....says she loves me all the time, we have great sex constantly! and she wants to marry me badly, she is always bringing it up and trying to plan it....my heart tells me nothing is going on but i dont know if i am insercure or what but i cant stop thinking about maybe somthing is going on!!! fuck man,,,someone gimme some advice


on a side note i would think it would pretty fucked up if she invited this kid out in front of her mother and started making out with him or something..but hey you never know!

also forgot to mention i ran into this kid the othr night at a bar and str8 up asked him wtf is up...he was like "bro nothing is going on, ive only seen michelle around 5-6 times we are facebook friends, dude i understand where you are comin from it does look wierd and i would react the same way, but nothing is up"

Wait, what?

 

[trex74]

OMG just ask her already and find out for yourself.

 

[iron_matt-CB]

+1
She should NOT be inviting him to a bar and NOT telling you about it. If his fiancee's mom is a musician she might be one loose chick herself (trust me, I am a musician as well so I know just how loose women musicians can be) so that is not very reasuring. The whole scenario is screaming of covertness and when you are in a relationship there should always be transparency.
Sorry ladies but I don't think he is being insecure. If your man let's you go and hang out with some dude at a dive bar for "drinks" and is cool with it AFTER the fact that he found from sources other than your own mouth then he either doesn't care enough about you to give a shit if you are fucking someone else or more than likey is fucking someone else so he doesn't give a shit about you. The only other scenario is that he is so hen-pecked and pussy whipped that he doesn't have the balls to say something.
Bro, for now you don't have proof so don't go saying stupid shit that can either hurt your relationship or give her reason to cover her tracks. Just chill, keep your eyes open and your mouth shut until the time is right if ever. Hopefully she isn't doing anything to jepordize the family you two have created and you have to be absolutely 100% sure with proof that she is doing something before you do anything. Never just go on a hunch.

Best advice yet.. Thanks buddy.. My mind is just going crazy thinking about the possibilities and it really is getting the better of me right now!!! I can't get the idea out of my head!