The good thing is is my forearms look like ive implanted coke cans!!!!! Dude weve tried the date thing but it didnt help. Last date we went on was my christmas party top notch hotel,top notch dinner, got back to the room and a dead fish moves around more than she did. Do u have kids???? I work night shift so i sleep during the day complete opposite schedule as everyone. Thanks for the advice...... Maybe its just Me Maybe its just HER or maybe we need to meet in the middle I was hoping to hear from someone in the same situation.
thanks though
Y'know, in neither of your posts have you said anything about what she said when you talked to her about this problem, but here is what we on the board know:
1. You work night shift so she's the primary caregiver of the children during the week.
2. You have three children.
Frankly, if I was basically the single parent to three children (which is what she is for all intents and purposes during the week, since you're sleeping during the day when the kids are up), the last thing I'd want to do is have sex. Considering your age it's safe to assume the children are all quite young, too, aren't they?
You REALLY have no idea why she doesn't want to fuck you?
Dude, she's not just physically tired, she's mentally exhausted. She needs more than a frigging date night, she needs some relief, she's burnt the hell out.
Try switching your shift. If that can't happen then you'll just have to get over yourself. Stop being a fourth child and expecting her to go from nurturing three small children to nurturing you; she probably barely has anything left for herself after she's done with them.
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