Am i the only one??????

[debij]

Its obvious this guy wrote asking for help and what he has taken from MuscleMom is out of control. If you can't give advice that is said in a respectful manner then don't say anything at all! So many other members stated there are issues with his wife that need addressed... depression drains a person of everything, plus her addiction problems, the last thing on her mind is sex! This is sad for him ! He sounds like he's keeping things together - he certainly isnt a slacker. But its even more sad for her. When a person has these issues, it takes someone else to step in and help them get their life together. Probably the best thing for the entire family would be getting her into a program that gets her off the drugs which is one step toward lessening the depression. Once her mind and system are clean, things will change for the better not only for herself but for her children and her husband. He's kinda got beat-up a little from certain members but he had the strength to post his problem here for all of our help. I think the EF members who care the most & understood his problem spoke words of wisdom to him. We all should hope his future will work out for the best, which would include a happy marriage with sex that is enjoyed by both of them, and good health and happiness for their children. That is my wish for them.

 

[cindylou]

This is why all women should never rely on a man for their money!
Both should work, both should raise the kids so both can survive if one takes ill, dies or straight up walks out on the family.

I do work full time, I dont know why that guy thought I didnt. He cant read?

Im not one of those chicks. lol. I couldnt do it. I'd go crazy.

And that is good advice - its 2009 and there are not too many MEN out there anymore. Best to protect yourself.

 

[nickda40]

taking care of kids is not harder then working the grave yard shift haha, that for one is why it is a womans job in "so called society" cuz it is easier.......

 

[heavy_duty]

I was at home all day yesterday with a vomiting 5 year old.
yah that was sooooooooooooooo easy

 

[cindylou]

taking care of kids is not harder then working the grave yard shift haha, that for one is why it is a womans job in "so called society" cuz it is easier.......

lol one kid maybe true. I picture the summers with the SAHM maybe lounging by the pool while watching her kid.

But FUG being a SAHM Mom with 3 kiddos. No effing way.

I'd rather be working, getting paid, contributing to retirement and getting respect.

 

[heavy_duty]

raising your own is very fulfilling. Hell if its not, ya better move out.