women = stress = no appetite

[capnnoway]

Bro's help me.

My woman and I are talking breaking up after 2.5 years and the fighting and stress this week has killed my appetite which in turn means I haven't had any real strenth at the gym. Plus I'm sleeping like crap... in fact I feel like crap.

In right in the middle of my dbol/deca cycle when all this shit hit the fan


HELP

what can I do?

 

[M.O.D]

yeah and by doing this you are giving her more power....reverse your thinking and watch how fast things change....

 

[capnnoway]

?

what do you mean?

 

[M.O.D]

my guess and correct me if i'm wrong but i'm guessing you are feeling real down, trying to get her back, trying to get her to feel sorry for you, calling her alot...now your feeling like your life sucks without her...not working out or eating like you said,,,,BUT if any of this is ture i can tell you its the wrong approach....chicks feed off your pain and when you may think she will feel bad and come back to you what really is happening is you are looking weak to her..

try changing your thinking right now...get up tomorrow get your ass in the gym and if you do talk to her SOUND very upbeat...dont fight or talk about breaking up or wanting her back...act like life is great and you are very happy even though you may feel like your dead inside...its a game and it suck but it is pretty much full proof.....girls for the most part are very insecure and when they feel like you are not interested in her or that you are doing just fine withour her it will drive her nuts and watch she will come running back to you....i dont know your story but this works in most cases..


my bill will be in the mail

 

[capnnoway]

Hey bro I totally appreciate what you are saying. but you're right I didn't really give you all the details.
But you are right about your approach with women, that totally works.

In my case, though its basically already past that point... she is the one wanting to get back together and I have just had enough of the BS. So, now we are still living together because she has no where else to go... =========> major stressful situation.

it's hard to move on with life with a live-in reminder ....

 

[M.O.D]

yeah i hear ya, i've been in these situations more than i care to remember...all i can say is it will pass but it will pass a lot quicker if you just get back to your life and move on...

stay strong and stay busy..i wish you all the best