Thoughts on Moving to SoCal ... back to...

[Citruscide]

Here's the dilly... I love SoCal... I love the weather... I love the people... laid back and easy going... just like myself. All to often, many people in the mid west are very uptight... very "workaholic" -- not that west coasters don't work hard... but there is a differnet emphasis on 'hard' -- people know how to enjoy themselves out there.

I miss the Pacific Ocean, I miss SofaGeorge, I miss My old roommate and my last roommate just moved out there...

Chicago is GREAT... I know TONS of people here... and it's insane of how many contacts and hookups I have up in this mug... but when I was out in SoCal... it was really amazing.

Now to why SoCal fell apart... I didn't have a plan worth crap. I went out there hoping I passed the bar to get an attorney job that never really existed... I moved out on a whim because my ex-finace and I broke up... bottom line, I moved out... without a plan, without proper finances... or anything...

I am in the process of saving money now... so I can hopefully do something with my life... whether it be moving to CA or staying in Chicago... or moving somewhere else I might be more happy, around people I love.

I'd like thoughts from my friends... A-Sphinx, Sofa, Kronk, PH -- as well as others... I was thinking today... about how much I missed SoCal... and how much better it would be, if I planned on a move with MORE planning than just 2 weeks... but 6 months.

C-ditty

 

[velvett]

Follow what leads you.

 

[PatsFan34]

I love you guys!!!

 

[XBiker]

Some people believe in destiny...

some in fate...

I say make your future, be the master of your own destiny and follow you instincts.

 

[the People's Champ]

I would say, do what you love, and be where you want to be. everything has a price. try to have something concrete when you move back here though. socal has the shittiest economy.

can't wait to chill with you and the peeps again at stadium tavern

 

[Big Johnson]

C-ditty,

You only live once, and since you are in the position to live just about anywhere you want, make sure you are true to yourself.

However, if you are going to move to SoCal, may I suggest Monterey or the surrounding area? Property values in Cali are the highest they've ever been right now, but one can still find some reasonable real estate only 20 to 30 miles inland. If you are dead-set on SOSoCal, San Diego is the only place I'd consider. LA is a fucking mess.

Big Buck is down there. I'm sure he'd help you find a place to stay, lift, and party if you wanted to scope it out.

And the women...

Peace

 

[Lestat]

get pumped up next time and take a new avatar pic.

 

[Big Johnson]

PM box full, C

 

[the People's Champ]

Come back home!

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[The Shadow]

C - I have noticed that I have my most concise lucid thoughts in that little sliver of time between between being asleep and being "just" awake.....I think the sub-conscious is trying to be my guide at this time when I need it.

It will work itself out and you will know....and the decision will be the correct one.



I see you moving back personally.