I know what you mean, I have never had anyone say this to my face, but if looks could talk....... I just brush it off, and chalk it up to people trying to defend thier inadequacy. I dress well, I have nice toys, I am a amateur boby builder, I am good looking, I have a beautiful wife, and I am not gay. Deal with it.lol If you want what I have then work hard, and never give up. Otherwise all the dirty looks are just fuel for next workout.lol
Actually, the ones in my opinion that I feel are over compensating are the ones with those giant 4x4 trucks especially the diesel ones with those annoying huge stacks on them. I know I am acting a little hipocritical, but Im just being honest. LOL