Short1 - Bodybuilding Competition Log

[Miss24k]

Shorty, I hope everything works out. And I can totally understand how you feel. I've also been with my huney for 6 years and he too was (is) for me competing ( I think he likes to brag that he lives with a fitness model LMAO) anyway but whenever it's time to get down to it and the really hard part comes like the last 8 weeks, he starts feeling neglected and spits out the you have no time for me comments. While I love him to death, I'd like to kick him in his ass at times.

I know I didn't offer any advice, just wanted you to know you aren't alone.

 

[Sassy69]

LOL @ mm --- "honey you were snoring and you woke me up, so I wanted to share".... Man, I hope I don't snore....

 

[heatherrae]

Hey Short One,

Stress makes us say nasty things sometimes. The "I was going to ask you to marry me" part seems like a plea for attention, to me. I think that means "I am really in love with you, and am feeling neglected." Maybe I'm a pollyanna, but I think this will pass. Just try to make a little time for him and it will most likely cool down the tensions a bit.

Dan used to snore, VERY LOUDLY. I wore the earplugs made for nighttime. They are in little jars in the drugstore. I could even hear him through those sometimes, though, and it was so frustrating!! It drove me crazy. I would try to get to sleep before him so that I could sleep through it. That was the only thing that helped. He was too selfish to bother putting on the nose strips. Your guys sounds lots better, though. maybe ask him to wear them?

 

[florencia]

I have to read your post....I glanced and worried...
I know it sounds ridiculous to worry for you, BUT....I do...
I understand all the things said ^^, yet I think if you begin a conversation with him "acknowledging" your part, and giving him a hug he will let his armour down, and then you may begin a new phase of your relationship!!!
I read this (below)the other day and think if we all used it...we would save ugly moments in our lives!!!
1. Speak in anger and you will hold the best speech you ever regretted. Winston Churchill.

2. Anyone can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way - that is not easy. Aristotle

My best to you both!!!

 

[jenscats5]

I don't have any advice cuz MM & Sassy seem to have covered it so well.....but HUGE HUGS for ya girl!! I'm so sorry for the argument & hope it all works out for the best.....

Oh and I use the nose strips a lot & they really do work for stuffy noses (if that's what's causing the snoring)

 

[florencia]

Joke Read ONLY if you are up to it!!!
Triathlon has triathlon widows, like golf does too...I guess BB, & figure now have widowers!!!
I hope all is well!

 

[Mavafanculo]

you ladies would do well to read musclemom's post ^^ - she's a smart cookie, has us figured out for real

( she must be eliminated )

 

[ck2006]

x a million.

all I can say is earplugs and I know things will get better for you cause you are a strong and determined woman and good things happen to good people!

 

[Sassy69]

you ladies would do well to read musclemom's post ^^ - she's a smart cookie, has us figured out for real

( she must be eliminated )

Ditto.


BTW u touch a hair on the lady's avatar & I will personally eliminate you from the face of the earth. Even if I do like ya & your Chewbacca looking avi

 

[musclemom]

you ladies would do well to read musclemom's post ^^ - she's a smart cookie, has us figured out for real

( she must be eliminated )

My dear sir, I will be 42 my next birthday, which takes place in less than two weeks.

I have been married or living with a man in a committed relationship continually since I was 18. It stands to reason I would have picked up a little insight in nearly 24 years, I pay attention ... although I will admit, it's easier to learn about something when you enjoy the subject of your study