Short1 - Bodybuilding Competition Log

[Sassy69]

My dear sir, I will be 42 my next birthday, which takes place in less than two weeks.

I have been married or living with a man in a committed relationship continually since I was 18. It stands to reason I would have picked up a little insight in nearly 24 years, I pay attention ... although I will admit, it's easier to learn about something when you enjoy the subject of your study

You should hold classes or podcasts or something --- "How life REALLY works - several lessons in things that you should know but probably don't"

 

[musclemom]

You should hold classes or podcasts or something --- "How life REALLY works - several lessons in things that you should know but probably don't"

Not me honey, maybe several other ladies and me together

I have these moments where I go "Ooooo, I know this!" and it's like the answer is right there, it's like I channel it or something ... and then other times I just stare blankly and drool.

 

[Sassy69]

Not me honey, maybe several other ladies and me together

I have these moments where I go "Ooooo, I know this!" and it's like the answer is right there, it's like I channel it or something ... and then other times I just stare blankly and drool.

Damn you do that too? And I thought I was special that way....

 

[Gymgurl]

My dear sir, I will be 42 my next birthday, which takes place in less than two weeks.

I have been married or living with a man in a committed relationship continually since I was 18. It stands to reason I would have picked up a little insight in nearly 24 years, I pay attention ... although I will admit, it's easier to learn about something when you enjoy the subject of your study

LMAO...you are soooooo right on!

Shortie.....Hun...hang in there....5 more weeks...This is one of the main reasons I never competed...with kids and hubby it was too hard.. Humble yourself and feels where he is comming from and talk to him. He is feeling neglected...explain what is going on...even if it is for the 100th time....Hang in...almost done.....YOU CAN DO IT...and you know I am always here for ya...

 

[the-short-one]

Not me honey, maybe several other ladies and me together

I have these moments where I go "Ooooo, I know this!" and it's like the answer is right there, it's like I channel it or something ... and then other times I just stare blankly and drool.

LMAO! I love you. More than words can say.

Then they cool off and realize what they did, and they usually feel stupid. They would love to take it all back and fix it, but their egos make it tough to apologize, plus they're afraid you're going to hollar at them (and this time they know you'll be completely justified), and then they feel even more threatened because now they're afraid that you'll be so pissed at them that you really may leave because they realize they're being unreasonable jackasses.

This description fits perfectly. lolol He came home last night and was so overly nice that I didn't really know what to do. I'm talking "super, duper I did a really bad thing and please don't hate me" nice. So...I ran with it. We let the bad stuff go.

I have been married or living with a man in a committed relationship continually since I was 18. It stands to reason I would have picked up a little insight in nearly 24 years, I pay attention ... although I will admit, it's easier to learn about something when you enjoy the subject of your study

I really think the key to making a relationship last (or one of them, anyway) is figuring out HOW your man communicates. Jeff is like most men - emotionally closed off 90% of the time and very bad at expressing his feelings verbally. So, I've learned to 'read' him in other ways. It's like learning a new language. I constanly have to interperate his actions and his words without getting all pissy myself. I am the calm, thoughtful one in the relationship. lolol

As to why he started snoring, if he's using any "supplements" that could affect his sleep patterns. Even building up muscle or increased throat size (or even vocal cord size) could affect this stuff. How to get him off your back about leaving the bed? Well, you could get a tape recorder and tape him snoring ... then you play it back for him, making sure it's about as loud as you hear it. You could try the passive aggressve approach, which is elbow/nudge/jiggle/call name or otherwise WAKE the snorer up in mid snore. Tell them "Honey, you were snoring and you woke me up, so I wanted to share." If their snoring keeps THEM awake, too, they will eventually get over your leaving the bed and in fact will be happy to have the uninterrupted rest.

LOL! I thought about recording his snoring last night. I sat up in bed about midnight thinking I could get my phone and record his snoring with the "record message" feature. Instead, I went to sleep in the other bed. Jeff had made it up for me with new sheets and blankets for me. lolololol



I want to hug you all. thank you so much for your thoughts and words. It feels so wonderful to have this much support.

Shadow also suggested ear plugs, so I think I'll get some today. We'ver both stuffed onto a queen bed right now until I can get the new bedroom finished. (should be done painting it today!) then we can stretch out in our King - and that might help some.

...and I'm 4 weeks out. Just wanted to clear up the confusion.

 

[florencia]

 

[The Shadow]

LOLOL

....all the relatonship stuff - followed by:


I am 4 weeks out damn it

 

[velvett]

4 weeks.

wow, and to think this thread started in Nov - I don't know about anyone else but these m onths have blown by in record time.

 

[the-short-one]

LOLOL

....all the relatonship stuff - followed by:


I am 4 weeks out damn it

everyone had me confused. lolol I had to look at the calendar to be sure.

4 weeks.

wow, and to think this thread started in Nov - I don't know about anyone else but these m onths have blown by in record time

yes. they have.

 

[The Shadow]

btw - Fiber Sure

Bascially tatsteless, textureless - powder - you can add it to ANY liquid based sauce, shake etc.

I would give it a go