opinion needed

[NY Muscle]

i think you have to be a female to understand this

No hun trust me I totally understand…it works both ways..but why belittle the guy for something he politely said and feels?

Makes no sense…and that wont solve the problem..that’s why she needs to ask him what’s up with that comment

 

[muskles]

my man made some unsolicited fat bum type comment to me about a year ago, and boy did we have words after that... but i must admit now it mostly hurt my feelings because i agreed with him. if i hadn' agreed with him, i would've politely told him to go f$%^ himself and left it at that.

after our fight was over, it seriously motivated me to work harder... so i guess i don't mind now that he said it. if he had said it in a nicer way, that would've been appreciated, but i like men to have a strong backbone so i guess i can't expect him to be mr sensitive to my feelings.

i think if it's really bugging you, you should ask him what he meant by it.