opinion needed

[PowerPrincess]

well were you this size when he met you? just curious, if youve gained weight or something...

i was told this by my bf, and i had put on some weight, i honestly think it took balls for him to have the nerve to tell me that i was gettin "chunky" , he didnt mean disrespect...it did make me feel like i had a lump in my throat tho, but i got over it and got back on track too....

its very easy to fall by the way side and let urself slip when u r in a relationship imo

I totally agree with you about getting comfortable when in a relationship. But when i met him, i had less muscle and had more body fat weighing almost 148, now that i'm about 132ish (on average) i'm plump - go figure.

I guess he's just trying to keep me in a forward moving track fighting against bodyfat - too bad, i'm human and actually have an appetite and am hungry every 2 hours - geez

And all of us with a tush and curves - you know it's harder to loose in those places too - sucks....have to stop taking fatburners too b/c going in for ba in a month.....damn!!!!!!!! Now my appetite will probably go through the roof

 

[Arioch]

Wait until he is sleeping, then hit him, low.

Hard.

Some things a man should never say. Unfortunately the world is full of little boys.

 

[Sassy69]

I have YET to find the guy who thinks a breast augmentation makes you "plump"... they are too busy drooling to actually voice their opinion... LOL!

Just remember this ... in the all-knowing-all-seeing words of The Ranger... God gave men a hole at the end of their penises (penii??) so they could be open minded! (BWAHAHAHAHA!)

(Range you KNOW I love ya now!)

What exactly does he consider "plump" and did something change? And BTW, is he a tight-ass mofo or a little mushy around the edges himself??

 

[smoknjilly]

true...is this guy like a perfect model or something?

my BF would love for me to be a size 0 and 5 ft tall with fake boobs. However, I am 5'7, size 4-6 and a natural chest, and I could never be what he would "wish for" And ya know what, I don't care!

If he were ever to make a comment, I just call him "jelly belly" and pinch his side, and he shuts up fast! He is thin but doesnt lift at all. I'll be a size 0 when he has a 6 pack, which will be NEVER!!

even if this guy is perfect, he has no right to make comments like that, especially after you made progress!!

 

[BronzedGoddess]

No offence jilly, but your bf sounds like he want a girl, not a woman. Size 0

 

[smoknjilly]

oh..I agree! plus what he wants does not occur in nature...only in airbrushed pictures...

but, I have learned, what you end up with is not usually your "ideal". I had never dated anyone under 6'3 before him..and he is only 5'11.

 

[PowerPrincess]

[BJust remember this ... in the all-knowing-all-seeing words of The Ranger... God gave men a hole at the end of their penises (penii??) so they could be open minded! (BWAHAHAHAHA!)
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You just put the BIGGEST SMILE ON MY FACE - thanks i needed that

 

[trial0rzgrl]

this could be a serious problem in a relationship- if you both care about your bodies and he just told you that without being asked.. did he?
i really think you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.... if he was trying to tell you he was not happy with your looks then he has to look at himself to see what type of person he has become... he should love you for you... besides you sound very proportional to me...
i persoally want the truth but could not deal with someone who didnt love me for me...
good luck!

 

[NY Muscle]

I think you ladies are jumping down this poor guys throat for no reason..if that is how he feels, if that is his opinion, why is he such a bad guy? I mean princess even said he said … “politely tells you that you're pleasantly plump” He wasn’t being mean, he said it nice…now was this a hint to tell her to cut it out or maybe he likes it..who knows…bottom line is you are all getting mad at what he sees and this is his opinion.

I have no doubts that princess looks good…so I’m on her side also…but why get mad at him for something he said, nicely at that?


I am not sure what his reasoning was, maybe it was just a comment, maybe it was a hint… I made a comment to this girl I have been dating recently..she said something to the effect of “I’m going to make you my boyfriend” so I said… “oh really? So you are gonna start taking some clen and anavar?” lol now I told her I was just kidding and I really was…but the girl has been looking unreal lately…I’m guessing she took what I said to heart…who knows.


Another girl I see said to me recently….”eww you are getting too ripped and too big..i like some softness on a guy ya know” so should I get equally upset at her as you ladies are at this guy?

Princess…ask him…ask him if he likes or doesn’t like what he sees..then talk about it.

 

[smoknjilly]

i think you have to be a female to understand this