Here is something to think about. Why worry? I mean we all do and sometimes it gets the best of us. But hey, if we cut bait every time we thought something was up we would be very lonely people. Even when you have done your homework and everything seems as it should be you will find out at some point that you missed something. You just have to decide if the person is worth sticking it out with or not and if your willing to get your ass handed to you if it doesnt or they are not what they seem.
I guess I am in that category of I don't want to get hurt, but realize I will in order to get what I am looking for. Someone to be with that will make me complete.