Your light, but pound for pound you are one strong ass dude. Don't worry about bulking up so much, with all your activity it'll be tough to pack on the calories. Keep doing what your doing and any weight you gain will be LBM. Great work. Don't worry about the bench either, with your build it will always be a tough lift so dont let it get you down, it is not a good representation of your upper body strength. Keep pullin that heavy ass weight.