I'm so excited ... a toy!!

[drgoodbody]

Damn...

that's sad shit BD... I agree with ya though, that's what happens if couples don't give enough of a shit to keep it interesting. Eventually they just quit caring what the other person wants. It's weird but true, the opposite of love isn't hate, it's apathy. At least hate is a strong emotion. When a relationship goes down the shitter and neither side gives a fuck about others feelings/wants/desires, you know there is only one thing to do - head for an exit.

Damn, now you sucked me off onto a tangent... LOL!

DrG

PS: And I still say you ought to let one of the bro's on this board hit it - repeatedly

 

[Burning Desire]

Jubei ... let me just tell you this ... nobody Ever would ever make me choose between my family or Sex! Sex isn't that improtant ... but it's a nice stress reliever ... I would never put sex before my children ... and with the hours that my hubby works, the only time my kids see him is for about an hour tues-sat mornings and then again on hubby's weekend sun&mon ...

if I were to "exit" ... when would Daddy see the children ... I could never take the kids away from him!! He IS the best dad ... mr. play dad ... only thing is I get vetoed on just about anything I say ... so they are learning from daddy that they don't have to listen to me, or what I say doesn't matter ... which makes my job tougher ... esp. on Tesuday, when they don't think they have to listen to me and tell me shit like, "your not the boss"....

sooo .... that's not exactly an option!

All I want is a good fuck on the side to keep me happy and I can deal with the rest of it ...

Raising babies ain't easy and I'm not letting him off the hook that easy!! He's going to have to stick around and help raise these chickadees!


I'm on a tangent again ... sorry ....

and I know that alot of folks on this board think I'm shit for even thinking about wanting to cheat on my hubby ... but it's not that Black and white ... and over the last couple of days, I've given ya'll plenty of insight into this marriage! for whatever it's worth!

I'm not that evil ... I just want happiness ... to be treated special .... I don't have that ... not sure if I ever did ... and if that's how I choose to have a bit of happiness ... a little bit of fun ... something to smile about while kids are stressing me ... then so be it! I'll be judged by the great man upstairs when my time comes ....

For now ... I'll get by with a little help from my friend ... my little boy blew who'll cum blow my horn!!!

btw ... DrG .. I got myself a bro! not from here though!.... I was having phone sex with him the other night! We plan to meet on Sunday .... for some real action! If the phone sex was any indication of what I can expect on Sunday ... I'm in for a real treat! He left me breathless and weak in the legs ... and that was just phone sex.... no kidding ... I went out to the kitchen to get a drink of water, (my mouth was dry), and I was practically legless! Just thinking about it makes me pussy throb! Damn!

 

[jubei]

She chose me over her husband not over her kids. I can't imagine any mother choosing sex over her children, but she didn't love her husband anymore and I guess she just fell for me. When I started having feelings for her I didn't want to share, and she wasn't willing to give me up either. I'll tell you this much though, her kids never took a back seat to anyone including me, and I wouldn't have had it any other way. You see, others situations aren't black and white just like yours.

 

[Burning Desire]

She chose me over her husband not over her kids. I can't imagine any mother choosing sex over her children, but she didn't love her husband anymore and I guess she just fell for me. When I started having feelings for her I didn't want to share, and she wasn't willing to give me up either. I'll tell you this much though, her kids never took a back seat to anyone including me, and I wouldn't have had it any other way. You see, others situations aren't black and white just like yours.

Right ... right ... sorry, really! I misunderstood ... but the facts remian the same, and yes, nothing ever is black and white ...

maybe someday it'll be easier to cut loose ... like when my youngest is 18!

there's a song, with lyrics ... "I've built my life around you ... but children get older ... and I'm getting older too ... "

that's my life right now. as sad as it may seem.

 

[Temple]

So I take it that once he gets off it is game over?????? Have you considered taking Mr. Rabbit to bed with the two of you???
One of the quickest ways to get your partner truly interested in your pleasure is to make his pleasure your main focus i.e. you want to see his eyes roll up in the back of his head right before he loses consciousness. Basically turn it into a game between the two of you this way it is easier to say "how about we try this" or "how about we try that". If you are having trouble relaxing have you considered trying a little herb? I absolutely love having sex high, it is easier to come and the orgasms are more intense.

I know you say he works a bunch of hours - my husband does as well. We still find time to take care of each other.

 

[natedog]

Re: Re: No doubt boss...

That's the trouble here ... he busts his nuts long before I'm ready to cum, or just as I'm working up into one and he finishes!! And all get is, "Sorry, honey ... I can't help it if you feel so good!"

I used to have this problem with my ex. We were young and she was one of those hard to get off chicks. She'd actually get upset at me for cumming, and even though I was willing and able to go again or try other things for her, it was like it put her out of the mood. This turned into a pattern after a while, and I pretty much quit trying, because it was pointless. Long story short, she cheated, I showed her what cheating was all about, and we got divorced .

I hardly ever have an orgasm while he's fucking me, but when I do, I can have an orgasm for what seems like five minutes straight! OMG! ... and we very rarely have oral sex ... I'm not sure if It's my own "hang up" in that department ... after all four kids came from there ... I just can't seem to relax enough ...

Trust me, if he is offering, he really doesn't care what it looks like (in fact, he probably loves it). Assuming you keep it washed, the only smell that will be there is the good smell that drives men wild. Being married with 4 kids, and assuming he's not stepping out (if he's having sex with you regularly, this isn't likely), he probably considers that HIS pussy too.

another thing, when he does do that to me, it just doesn't feel right ... he makes me tooo wet with his own spit, or he sucks the wrong way ... or something ... I can't explain it ... I do remember a time that I use to LOVE it and would want it all the time ....

If he isn't doing it right, for god's sake TELL THE POOR MAN! Grab his fuckin' head with one hand and point where you want to be licked with the other and tell him exactly what the fuck to do. We aren't mind readers anymore than you are.

Bottom line, if you are married and having bad sex, you may assume that at least half the blame belongs to you. (If you're not having sex at all, that's a whole other issue.) Women have more fucking hang-ups with this than men can even dream of.

I'd love to lose myself to total uninhibited sex ... be completely relaxed, and enjoy each sensual touch of a man who knew "exactly" how to treat my sweet little flower!

So deal with YOUR issues and show your man how you like to be fucked.

Kind of sad ... all he wants to do is go to the shed and drink his beers and smoke his butts and watch whatever the hell is on TV than to spend time with me ...

Wake up! Pleasing you in bed sounds like an exercise in futility. He's probably depressed because he can never manage to make you happy in bed (which is a BIG HUGE thing for a man's fragile little ego and will carry over into every aspect of his life).

Cheating on him sure isn't going to help, and damn you for even thinking of it. Of course you'd probably have amazing sex, because of the whole chemistry thing that goes on with new people. If you want to sleep with other men, at least have the tits to either leave him first, or tell him so he can decide whether he wants to continue the facade of your marriage "for the kids" or not.

Goddamn, women piss me off sometimes. Now I remember why I'm afraid to get married again, thanks.

 

[jubei]

I used to think marriage would be all good and my future wife would never want to cheat on me because of my dashing good looks. Now I'm not so sure....

 

[Puddles]

It's sad seeing so much talk about marriages that don't work. I think it's largely due to selfishness. It's like...you did such and such to me, so now it's my turn to get even with you so I'll do this and that. That stuff only puts a bigger wedge inbetween two people. But not all marriages can be helped either...it takes two people trying equally as hard to overcome issues and if only one of them is trying, it won't work. If that one person tries for years and gets no where, they will give up and just do what they have to do to get through the day.

I've seen this happen with friends...my best friend loves her husband, but he's just a cold stand offish person and after being together for 20 yrs, things have only gotten worse...it's like they are living seperate lives and they're just sharing a place to live and fuck. He works long hours, she stays home and does stuff with the kids. He's a control freak but she deals with it because she loves him and the kids. He loves her too, but just doesn't know how to show it. I'm pretty sure if it wasn't for the kids they would have divorced.

I guess we all do what we have to do to get through situations, but living in an unhappy marriage really sucks.

Enjoy the rabbit, BD! I don't use mine often, but when I do it's like....WOW! I like it best when hubby uses it on me.

 

[lilperronis]

if the company that makes it callesit "rabbit" you should call it petter cotton tail

 

[TheDarkSideNinja]

Hey BD...

Ya only live once which means being happy is very important and good sex is an big part of being happy in my life...yours??? lol Anyways my friends call me "The President" which means if u can keep a secret we can do it anytime u wanna and ill show tricks of the trade on how to get a woman off with the magic tongue... Whatever u do...DO NOT i repeat DO NOT go near Jubei's wang as some of Elites Whores have said he has a 2 inch wanker!!! BAWhahahahaha