Help, cant get right! not even close to sex yet...

[fatmasterfat]

hey guys,
gonna keep this short.
I met this girl, got her number, called her, left a message, calls me back an hour later, says lets meet up right now to study (first mistake?)
ok so whatever i go to study cause i'm not very bright, get there, unbelievable chemistry, going great. go outside for some fresh air, sitting there everything is going good, "oh i love all this bonding" "whatever you want" type vibes comming from her mouth not mine.

dadadada, 5 minutes later my friends and my boyfriend.
ok wtf happened here.

I wasnt putting the game down, i was going against my insticts and you know trying to be a nice guy, we're at school not much i can do there.

so anyway studying is over, she says she'll call me tuesday...today...anyway i seen her the other day two days ago, and she just looked i dunno sad.

didnt really talk to her, thought she was actually gonna call.

i dont want to be in the friend zone, fucking study session, should i call her, or does this give her control in the supposed relationship...

i dont buy that i got rejected, just because i know when i get rejected, and this seemed forced...the boyfriend thing.

my instincts are to just go all out and fight for it, i'm really digging this girl. but at the same time i dont want to come across as needy.

i'm pretty fucking pissed at myself, normally i put the game down pretty thick, but for some reason i thought it would be better this way (you know having to see this person again in the future, know common people etc)

advice please.

 

[Wulfgar]

my advice...dont do shit

if she is interested she will make a move....there is alot to be said for playing it cool

 

[jacked clown]

Im confused about the dadadada my friends and my boyfriend thingy...what happened WAIT what??

 

[chewyxrage]

dude type that shit out in english and people could respond in a helpful manner

 

[blueta2]

maybe she could not understand you when you spoke??..hehe Kidding !

Should you or should you not call her? Take it from an experienced women, call her. Head games are futile!
If your instinct says to call her, then call her. You lose the control when you WAIT for her to call.....take the control and call and see if she wants to hang out.

Good luck

 

[fatmasterfat]

ok sorry. here we're hanging out, we;re talking everything is fucking going awesome. like really, then out of no where, she mentions she has a boyfriend.

ok now im confused.
i knew at the time it was a head fuck, or i thought it was so i didnt say shit, but now she isnt calling me back.
i know people say play it cool, blah its not really my style i'm pretty aggressive normally, i was just you know actually there to study.
I think i will have to call her because she isnt calling me and i'm fucking going crazy.

 

[fatmasterfat]

i think i'll call her after our exam, fuck this studying together shit...i think i just need to study, but her anatomy.

 

[blueta2]

If she has a boyfriend, I think you should respect her and leave her alone!
I didn't quite underestand in your first post that she had a boyfriend.
Sounds like she is playing a "head fuck" (oye the terms kids use these days), so stay away....who wants ppl who play head games anyways !

 

[Razorguns]

this is how u get your ass kicked by a jealuos bf who finds out one day some guy is scamming on his chick.

and drama begins.

You're better than shit. Tell her when she's single, give u a call. Balls in her court and you look 10x more like a standup admirable guy.