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Does sex existed after 6 yrs in a Relationship?
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THeMaCHinE
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Yup, the shot is a killer.
Alkybanshee
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LatinLoven said:
The shot, I believe it is Depo-provera (sp?), is a hugh sex drive killer. My ex got on it and we were broken up within a 18 months, we were together for 4 years. It also has other bad side effects, like weight gain, attitude change, and acne. Now I will say this, when my girl and I did have sex I would shoot my load all up in her and "we" never got pregnant so as birth control, it rocks, but not worth the other bullshit.
TongueDawgQue
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LatinLoven said:
That is your problem right there !!!!! How in the hell you are going to have a 6 yr relationship and you are ONLY 24 !!!! 1/4 of your life and I must say the "FUCKING" years of your life have been with the same woman !!!!! Get a life and some new pussy !!!!!!
Generic MALE
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The depot shot is notorious for killing a womans sex drive.
This is going to sound like Dr. Phil or something but I bet if on Thursday you leave her a handwritten note or a card where she will see it. in which you write something like "I would be nothing without you. I often get so busy with the crap in my life I don't remember how much I love you and remember even less to tell you how much I love you. Even when it rains you bring sunshine into my life.". Then on Friday look her in the eyes at breakfast and say something like "When I am at work I often miss you and wish you were just around to say hi to"...then call her at her work and leave a short message or say "Just wanted to say I was thinking about you and miss you." Then Saturday buy half a dozen roses, tear the petals off, make a trail from the front door to the bedroom of flower petals and then sprinkle the remainder on the bed. I don't bet or go to Vegas, but would risk laying money that you would get laid Saturday night. Then get some sappy love poem off the internet, the type that would make most men barf, tape it to the mirror she would see in the morning - some real mushy love poem on the mirror so she sees it first thing in the morning - and I would bet you get some attention on Sunday too.
This is going to sound like Dr. Phil or something but I bet if on Thursday you leave her a handwritten note or a card where she will see it. in which you write something like "I would be nothing without you. I often get so busy with the crap in my life I don't remember how much I love you and remember even less to tell you how much I love you. Even when it rains you bring sunshine into my life.". Then on Friday look her in the eyes at breakfast and say something like "When I am at work I often miss you and wish you were just around to say hi to"...then call her at her work and leave a short message or say "Just wanted to say I was thinking about you and miss you." Then Saturday buy half a dozen roses, tear the petals off, make a trail from the front door to the bedroom of flower petals and then sprinkle the remainder on the bed. I don't bet or go to Vegas, but would risk laying money that you would get laid Saturday night. Then get some sappy love poem off the internet, the type that would make most men barf, tape it to the mirror she would see in the morning - some real mushy love poem on the mirror so she sees it first thing in the morning - and I would bet you get some attention on Sunday too.
Climber406
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I'm with generic on that one. Fuck the others that say dump her. That's the problem with people these days, first sign of trouble they tuck tail and run like a bitch. I have been married for 2 and a half years, and sometimes it sucks ass, other times it is great and the best decision I ever made. Sometimes longevity is worth it's weight in gold.
On another note, I too suffer from "chick with no libido" as her depression meds suck that shit right out of her. What can I do? She knows that I have a libido like a fucking 90mph train, so she hooks me up when we have time. All you have to do is avoid being a prick about it. When we fight about it, we go to bed mad and I still don't get any. When I am cool and all cuddly and shit, It isn't fun but I get laid... It's an investment... Good luck, don't give up. Personally, I am waiting for my wife's sexual peak, as she is 25 and I am 26. I feel like a kid waiting to turn 21... Good luck bro...
On another note, I too suffer from "chick with no libido" as her depression meds suck that shit right out of her. What can I do? She knows that I have a libido like a fucking 90mph train, so she hooks me up when we have time. All you have to do is avoid being a prick about it. When we fight about it, we go to bed mad and I still don't get any. When I am cool and all cuddly and shit, It isn't fun but I get laid... It's an investment... Good luck, don't give up. Personally, I am waiting for my wife's sexual peak, as she is 25 and I am 26. I feel like a kid waiting to turn 21... Good luck bro...
gingersnap
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Climber, She needs to switch meds! I switched to Lexapro (I had bad PMS) and life has never been better, in and out of the bedroom...trust me, my husband is very happy, and we've been married 14 years!
LatinLoven
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Wow.... Thanks every one!!!
I got alot of replies... So now where do I start?!?
Climber406
Well, every one says Dump her... Lol Well, I did that already amd I missed her more then ever. It killed me!!! I Hooked up w/ one of my sisters friends a 18 year old Blond hair blue eyed Babe Hmmmm... & had a fuck fest for about 2-3 weeks & then ended up getting back with my girl.
Yes, I must admit that every one has there ups and downs, but some times I feel like the ups are coming less often. Dont get me wrong I love her to dealth, but I just cant stand going to bed every night with a hard on!!!
She is pushimg me for mariage and Im thinking if Im not happy now why would I get married. We have been engaged for 3 yrs now & she asked me if we could get married next year and I had to tell her no. I just want to get married one time & one time only & if Im not happy now then I know getting married will just make it worse!!!
Generic MALE:
Be romantic?!? Did you see my Handel "LatinLoven"!!!
I love peotry so write peoms to my girl all the time. I woiuld write them at work & female friends of mine would kid that if I wrote them a poem like that they would fuck me!!! I give her lil cards, bring roses for no reason.... I mean what else can a guy do?!?
machaveli :
As far as her cheating on me I high doubt it because she is a manger as a store & works long hrs. When she is not at work she is home.
gingersnap:
As far as using different types of birthcontrol, such as Lexapro. Does that really make that big of a difference. As far as the shots side effects she has them all. Achme, weight gain, low sex drive so I guess tring some thing else cant hurt.
Is Lexapro a shot, pill what is it?
PBR:
Are you tring to say that Im almost out of my prime?
So give up hua... Man thats a hard one to swallo.
So every one be honest with me. Do you think its really the shot or just time to call quits?!?
I got alot of replies... So now where do I start?!?
Climber406
Well, every one says Dump her... Lol Well, I did that already amd I missed her more then ever. It killed me!!! I Hooked up w/ one of my sisters friends a 18 year old Blond hair blue eyed Babe Hmmmm... & had a fuck fest for about 2-3 weeks & then ended up getting back with my girl.
Yes, I must admit that every one has there ups and downs, but some times I feel like the ups are coming less often. Dont get me wrong I love her to dealth, but I just cant stand going to bed every night with a hard on!!!
She is pushimg me for mariage and Im thinking if Im not happy now why would I get married. We have been engaged for 3 yrs now & she asked me if we could get married next year and I had to tell her no. I just want to get married one time & one time only & if Im not happy now then I know getting married will just make it worse!!!
Generic MALE:
Be romantic?!? Did you see my Handel "LatinLoven"!!!
I love peotry so write peoms to my girl all the time. I woiuld write them at work & female friends of mine would kid that if I wrote them a poem like that they would fuck me!!! I give her lil cards, bring roses for no reason.... I mean what else can a guy do?!?
machaveli :
As far as her cheating on me I high doubt it because she is a manger as a store & works long hrs. When she is not at work she is home.
gingersnap:
As far as using different types of birthcontrol, such as Lexapro. Does that really make that big of a difference. As far as the shots side effects she has them all. Achme, weight gain, low sex drive so I guess tring some thing else cant hurt.
Is Lexapro a shot, pill what is it?
PBR:
Are you tring to say that Im almost out of my prime?
So give up hua... Man thats a hard one to swallo.
So every one be honest with me. Do you think its really the shot or just time to call quits?!?
gingersnap
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LatinLoven,
Lexapro is an SSRI, (an antidepressant). Some antidepressants lower libido and mine is fine (probably increased)on this med.
Her birth control is doing a number on her, I would get off it.
From a females perspective I think she is feeling that maybe she is wasting her time with you and that you may never commit to marriage. She may feel you have been on some level using her for 6 years....that she gave you all her love and youth and now she will end up with nothing. There could be some passive aggressiveness to this. I know that sounds harsh but I'm just giving you a woman's view.
If you do get married and have kids...the years with young babies you will have less sex and that's pretty much guaranteed....it's all worth it though.
I think she is having some issues with your willingness to be a lifelong partner and the birth control. I would definitely recommend counseling together. You have 6 years in this, whatever you decide you really want to make the right decision, that is a lot of time to invest.
Good luck!
Lexapro is an SSRI, (an antidepressant). Some antidepressants lower libido and mine is fine (probably increased)on this med.
Her birth control is doing a number on her, I would get off it.
From a females perspective I think she is feeling that maybe she is wasting her time with you and that you may never commit to marriage. She may feel you have been on some level using her for 6 years....that she gave you all her love and youth and now she will end up with nothing. There could be some passive aggressiveness to this. I know that sounds harsh but I'm just giving you a woman's view.
If you do get married and have kids...the years with young babies you will have less sex and that's pretty much guaranteed....it's all worth it though.
I think she is having some issues with your willingness to be a lifelong partner and the birth control. I would definitely recommend counseling together. You have 6 years in this, whatever you decide you really want to make the right decision, that is a lot of time to invest.
Good luck!
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