Oh yeah Me too S.G.!!! Riesling for me! I feel guilty when it's too often and like it's a "crutch". And I've never felt like I "had" to do it till recently, so I didn't on purpose tonight...( even though I was stuck in an un expected close down the high way for two F'ING hours traffic jam!! ) Anyhow I was a good girl! As far as training with weights goes, I DEFINETLY work hard on my upper body... one day when I figure out how to take pics and post them i will! (computer challenged!!! ) but I still have a decent amount of tone to my legs...(so far), without doing anything . I'm just scared! I don't like how heavy they feel! Even when I lift light!? What do you think of this though?... A friend of mine, personal trainer, said maybe I should try, doing ONE REP of a bunch of different exercises in one leg day where i just hold the contraction as long as i could and then release instead of repeating the movement over and over..."repS". think that would do anything?