advice needed all

[Blane]

Hi all:

Been living in the gym and dieting.

40 yrs old and muscle seperation is beginning to show.

Was at a christmass party last night(biz related).

Ran into a woman (she is in her 40's as well.) We have done a couple of projects together. She has seen me with tight shirts on.....

We started talking and as we were. she starts rubbing my arms, squeezing my arms, grabbing my forearms. I was wearing a suit with the jacket on.....the convo was starting to get stale. so i mentioned to her she needed to go and mingle. her response was so you are sending me away...... i asked her. what? she said..you are sending me away....i said yes.

then later on i was sitting talking to other people(networking) she walked over and started talking to me again ..She was standing and i was sitting. She put her hand on my shoulder. Suits have a small pad on the shoulders.... she felt the pad and moved her hand towards my neck and started gently squeezing my trap, and rubbing my neck......

she left and it was time for me to go....i hugged her goodbye....

She knows im married.......

your thoughts all? is the touching sexual? or can it be her normal way of communicating?

She has caught me looking at her in a sexual way. and i did tell her she looked great......

Please advise.

I am attracted to her.....

 

[DJ_UFO]

Those are clear signs of something else coming from her....BUT, you are married. You have to think and determine who you are, what you want, what you've done and make decisions. Is not just a matter of playing whenever you want and stop the game when you want. Does most of the population do it? hell yeah! Even the President of the most powerful country in the world. But that doesn't mean shit. Even more, that is one sign why our civilization is going down the hill. I am not defending the marriage, neither the cheating game. I am standing for an advanced use of reason, logic and critical thinking. Be consequent. Say what you mean and mean what you say. We are emotional, and we need emotions. But reason must prevail.

 

[Blane]

Those are clear signs of something else coming from her....BUT, you are married. You have to think and determine who you are, what you want, what you've done and make decisions. Is not just a matter of playing whenever you want and stop the game when you want. Does most of the population do it? hell yeah! Even the President of the most powerful country in the world. But that doesn't mean shit. Even more, that is one sign why our civilization is going down the hill. I am not defending the marriage, neither the cheating game. I am standing for an advanced use of reason, logic and critical thinking. Be consequent. Say what you mean and mean what you say. We are emotional, and we need emotions. But reason must prevail.

Thank you sir.

 

[BNG]

YES it means more!!!
She was physically touching you for more than a brief second. She was disappointed when you asked her to mingle. She is interested in you physically, maybe nothing more.

Thing is you're married, she knows you're married. This tells me she doesn't respect a commitment, so unless your interested in being single again I'd avoid anything more to do with her.

 

[Blane]

YES it means more!!!
She was physically touching you for more than a brief second. She was disappointed when you asked her to mingle. She is interested in you physically, maybe nothing more.

Thing is you're married, she knows you're married. This tells me she doesn't respect a commitment, so unless your interested in being single again I'd avoid anything more to do with her.

ty sir...i hv not reached out to her...i blew her off completly.

 

[iggy]

ditto to what dj_ufo said!