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markshark said:
You said that the problem is your lack of confidence. That's a cerebral category matter. The steroids address the physical category. Maybe what you mean is that you have more alot confidence on 'steroids and that, while on gear, a cycle will help you win her over? You need to work on that.
Skinny guys get hot chicks. Heck, I know fat, old and bald guys who get hot, young chicks. Chicks that are 7, 8's and 9's. No lie. Thanks to the Internet what I'm stating is very much verifiable. You need to garner confidence without gear. Besides, the day will come when you'll have to quit using. I used to use gear and be a gym rat. I'm no longer using and while I still train, I'm no longer a gym rat. And I have as much confidence and success in securing women as I did when I was 25lbs. heavier, in the gym every day and on the sauce. I never thought I'd see the day when I would say something like that. And for that I'm a better man.
Sassy69
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Some people get a greater sense of "well being" and confidence from a cycle - for shits & grins when you get a chance and you're cleaned out of everything go get a full physical and see if any of your natural hormone levels are low.
Outside of that sometimes you just need to get outside of your own head and focus on making yourself happy and not relying on someone else to make you happy. You need to find a balance of happiness for YOURself and YOUR life - with or without this girl because you can't control or guarantee that all these things like a relationship are going to be perfect so that you can be happy. You need to be happy & confident in yourself regardless of what happens around you - this is what comes from the inside, not the outside.
Outside of that sometimes you just need to get outside of your own head and focus on making yourself happy and not relying on someone else to make you happy. You need to find a balance of happiness for YOURself and YOUR life - with or without this girl because you can't control or guarantee that all these things like a relationship are going to be perfect so that you can be happy. You need to be happy & confident in yourself regardless of what happens around you - this is what comes from the inside, not the outside.
DJ_UFO
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markshark said:
Good to hear mang! just try to control yourself! be self confident, up your selfsteem, don't show her jealousy. That will show her that you trust her and your self confidence actually will tell her that is SHE the one that could lose a lot. But do all of this FEELING it. It is not just acting to keep her at your side. You must really trust her if you know her.
Life is weird...I'm giving you these advices and I'm getting divorced...
Sassy69
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markshark said:
Interesting turnaround - in this case then perhaps your solution is just to TALK w/ her since she seems to be implying she's staying around for the long haul. When you are feeling less secure about things just come out & say it -- communication is still the foundation for everything & removes a lot of what we internalize that screws w/ our own self-confidence.
Good luck
Are we dating the same girl??? Dang!! I am 25 and she just turned 21. I am not so much with her anymore but she can basically get any guy she wants to and sometimes she does. I had great confidence and YES my cycle definitely helped with that. I also felt like I could get any girl I wanted to because of it and so I landed her who I rate at about a 9.8 out of 10. (I don't give anyone a 10) But she was so easily able to kill my confidence but I would just not let her see it. You gotta stay stong and keep your head up at all times!! Girls love a confident and strong minded man. Makes them feel good about who they are with. No girl wants to walk around with a guy hanging his head. As for personality... What do you guys do? Do you go out? Hang out with friends? Sports? TV? Movies? Try doing little but fun things with her.
Living between tampa and orlando we are always going to the parks which we both love. Try things that will always put a smile on both your faces.
I feel you though man. I am so completley whipped by this girl that I would do anything and everything for her. I would love her to be the mother of my kids but who really knows. I am still somewhat young and she is even younger. She is still doing the crazy college girl shit.... Plus it doesn't help that she is a model traveling all over the world for weeks at a time... Who knows that the hell she is doing. Until we are married with kids I will never really trust her.
Good luck man
Living between tampa and orlando we are always going to the parks which we both love. Try things that will always put a smile on both your faces.
I feel you though man. I am so completley whipped by this girl that I would do anything and everything for her. I would love her to be the mother of my kids but who really knows. I am still somewhat young and she is even younger. She is still doing the crazy college girl shit.... Plus it doesn't help that she is a model traveling all over the world for weeks at a time... Who knows that the hell she is doing. Until we are married with kids I will never really trust her.
Good luck man
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