I hear ya... but that stuff just isnt how im wired. When im done... im DONE. The last thing I even want to think about is sex. I just want to be left ALONE. Dont lay on me... im hot as fuck right now. Dont ask me to get up and do somethin, did you not just see how much work i just put in on your ass?... look at the sweat rollin off my forehead and listen to how hard im breathin woman!
I know that sounds "selfish" or whatever, but i think thats how most guys are wired. Emotionally theres just a huge detachment after the deed is done.
Boy i hope I dont get crucified for this one... *ducks*