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Yea but by 30, you have been through college and started a career. Haven't you been exposed to a lot of women by then?
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Yea but by 30, you have been through college and started a career. Haven't you been exposed to a lot of women by then?
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Yes. And thats part of the problem given the attitudes and expectations of the modern american female. The more we are exposed to it the more we dont want to make any "freedom limiting" mistakes.
Explain some of these expectations and attitudes that you find are the worse. What has been the deal breaker for you?
And I ask because I know some men that are over 30 and not married. Honestly, they are the most immature douches I have ever met and I can see why no woman would stick around. Then I know this other guy who on the surface seems like a really great guy. Most women that I talk to can't believe he isn't married or in a relationship. But as I got to know him I realized he's a shallow asshole.
You're probably right. Come to think of it, the two immature guys I'm talking about are in their 40's, well one is 39, I think. The other one that was shallow is 32.
And you've regretted every day of your life since.
Why is being previously married a litmus test of a mans worthiness? Marriage as an institution is obsolete and should a man decide to get married at all he would certainly need legal protections in place to guard against the legal system that is stacked against him in favor of the woman. I think more and more men are avoiding marriage altogether so this notion of "hes never been married, he must be defective" no longer applies for the most part. Whatever happened to the notion of "hes divorced, he must be a bad husband" ? That went out the door when people stopped giving a shit about the "sanctity" of marriage altogether. Unless youre referring to "starter marriages" lol you gotta be kidding me with that concept.
But to answer your question, modern american women expect their men to drop what attracted them in the first place and change, once they got him where they want him. Bad sense of entitlement as well (feminism, princess syndrome, whatever you want to call it). Nagging over bullshit. Ive been relationships where the arguing went on so long i didnt even know what the original argument was over lol. Theres always a pressure to take things to the next level also and its unnecessary. Youve never heard of anyone saying "gee i wish i got married sooner".
I could go on but its probably easier to just peruse any dating site and start posting up profile links of the women im talking about. It wont take long to find them trust me.
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