should i stop my run, going through a break up

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dont be proud,the nights not over. you guys have no idea how much i miss her and want to talk to her so bad

I'm not talking about tonight, I'm talking about last night, when you left you said there was no way you would be able to not pick up if she called, so somewhere you got the strength to not do it. So you've made it 24 hours, thats definitely a step in the right direction

 

[skacorica]

I know its been posted many times but Ill give you my 2 cents worth as well.

DO NOT STOP JUICING. If there is one way to get through a breakup its exercise and being active. Beside that, the best revenge for a breakup is to better yourself. Better your strength, better your body, etc. You are in the middle of a cycle so its the best time to build yourself. Get some new nice clothes, all of that sort of thing. Lets say you run into her a few months down the line....whats better than being hella cut, looking nice and being confident?

Another thing, they are all right about not talking to her. Nothing extends the pain of a breakup like talking to the girl....yes, easier said than done but it is the best way. Ignore her phone calls, ignore her emails, take her off your buddy list on IM if you use it.

I have been there before...the feeling that she is the ONE for you, you gave her EVERYTHING, how can this be happening? What did you do wrong? Maybe if you change things it can be different? Just one more chance for everything to workout! <---- FORGET ALL OF THAT. You gave her everything, she didnt reciprocate, there is nothing you can do, its HER loss. F*** her, you are better than her. You dont need to be jerked around, you are better than that.

Ive not been on these boards long, but Ive read your posts, you are an intelligent guy. You'll get through it and be better for it....and eventually you'll find a girl that you like even more than her and she will treat you like a king.

 

[patsfan1379]

I know its been posted many times but Ill give you my 2 cents worth as well.

DO NOT STOP JUICING. If there is one way to get through a breakup its exercise and being active. Beside that, the best revenge for a breakup is to better yourself. Better your strength, better your body, etc. You are in the middle of a cycle so its the best time to build yourself. Get some new nice clothes, all of that sort of thing. Lets say you run into her a few months down the line....whats better than being hella cut, looking nice and being confident?

Another thing, they are all right about not talking to her. Nothing extends the pain of a breakup like talking to the girl....yes, easier said than done but it is the best way. Ignore her phone calls, ignore her emails, take her off your buddy list on IM if you use it.

I have been there before...the feeling that she is the ONE for you, you gave her EVERYTHING, how can this be happening? What did you do wrong? Maybe if you change things it can be different? Just one more chance for everything to workout! <---- FORGET ALL OF THAT. You gave her everything, she didnt reciprocate, there is nothing you can do, its HER loss. F*** her, you are better than her. You dont need to be jerked around, you are better than that.

Ive not been on these boards long, but Ive read your posts, you are an intelligent guy. You'll get through it and be better for it....and eventually you'll find a girl that you like even more than her and she will treat you like a king.

ditto. well said.

 

[bbkingpinn]

This girl is not as great as your idle mind has made out. She is not as pretty as your idle mind has made out. You are not as desperate as your idle mind has made out.

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ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY!
If I was Platinum and had a scanner, I'd love to post pics of the 2 hot chicks I walked away from after they first tortured me once they knew they could. You wouldn't let some dude in the gym treat you like a pussy, if you did he'd keep doing it. You'd get no respect. That's what happens with girls too. Once they see you care so much and will let them walk all over you, that's what they do. I don't care if this chick is a prefect 10, because, if she is, that means you can get another perfect 10. FUCK HER!

 

[fuco 12]

Get you a chick that you don't even like take out some sexual frustration on her and get back in the gym quiting would show a sign of weakness. Not to mention as soon as she see's that youv'e gotten over it she will probly come beggin back

 

[georgie24]

hang in there bro! the first couple weeks is the roughest. it will get better...get off the interent! that would put you in the fast track to getting your mind and self back together. go to the gym! even if you dont work out like a horse you can still mope around in that enviroment. imo its better to mope around in the gym rather then alone in your roon in front of a p.c. set some new short term goals. ie: mod your car or go clothes shopping..


were here for you just pm one of us.

however try to get off the internet and get yourself OUTDOORS more

 

[Djicy]

honestly not to be a dickhead but at least you have your health manI just lost a good friend in an accident and another is very sick right now. be thankful you are healthy and still here life is too short for shit like this!!!!!

RIP JJ i'll miss you bro!!!!!!!!!

 

[ocisbomb]

Hey bud. I've been through it. TIME is the only thing that helps, and things that PASS TIME are what you need. Don't go into denial, feel your feelings, just know that they will soften with time, and there are SO MANY other great girls out there. I went through something VERY similar. A few months later, I met a girl that I could never have imagined existed. She is the epitome of perfection in every way. You'll be alone, there will be cold nights, the difficult of dealing with seeing her with someone else, but you need to be strong, and we are here.


A sidenote: I love this board. I love how a guy can anonymously reach out for help and be flooded by brotherly support. This just fucking rules. You guys are great. This reminds me so much of a fraternity.. The good parts anyway. Thanks for being here.

 

[suk1978]

i found i really enjoyed bag work with and without mitts when i went through my major break up. it got rid of a lot of anger and frustration at not being able to do anything to make the situation better. it also kept me active, the last thing you want to do is get out of shape due to a failed relationship. hang in there

 

[LVTitan]

i had the same 'conversations' traps, i'd go to sleep and have imaginary conversations over and over and wake up and wonder if i talked to her.. weird.. do not answer the phone ! DO NOT ANSWER THE PHONE, every time i did that, i started back over at square one. each time you answer the phone, or text her, or try to call her, you GIVE HER THE POWER.. right now you have the power because she tried to call you and the ball is now in your court... KEEP THE FUCKING BALL IN YOUR COURT. as soon as you try to call her, she is not going to the phone either, and you just put the ball back in her court. fuck man , i talked to mine at 5.30 this morning, and i am a fucking wreck right now !!!