should i stop my run, going through a break up

[alltraps]

i just want to thank all you guys and girls that responded here with advice and shared your personal experience. also all the guys that PMd me throughout all this. it all helps. so many of you have been through the same shit as me, sometimes even worse, yet when its happening to me, it feels like its so much worse. you guys all say it will take time and i;ll be fine, and all of you sound fine, so i believe you. but i still feel like i wont make it, i cant ever ever ever see being over this girl

 

[alltraps]

if she is "the one" to you and you are not "the one" to her then she is not the one. if you let yourself get walked all over she will have no respect for you. And you will have no respect for yourself... If she really and truly wants you she will find you.

your statement is hard to swallow, but so true. i have to believe this

 

[ryan04]

Sorry to hear about that shit bro. I went through the same shit about 8 monthes ago, and it tore me the fuck up. Couldn't eat, sleep, work out...nothing. All I did was lay in bed wathching t.v. and drinking tequila for the first couple of weeks. It's hell. As far as the juice goes, I'd do PCT and start again when your're feeling better. Gear is probably just going to make it worse psychologically and theres no point wasting it. All I can say is just try to relax and focus on the most important things, such as work, school, etc. Don't know what else to say except you'll get over it and find somebody else (I know you probably don't believe that right now).

"Life is a series of fleeting moments, the key to making the most out of each is not allowing yourself to be attached to the previous"--Hui-Neng 6th patriarch of Buddhism

 

[geoboy]

just got home from work. she called me a few times, 4 i think. she also called me last night at 2am. i didnt pick up any of the calls. she left one message saying she really needs to talk to me, and its killing me so much not to call her back. but i know shes just lonely and needs me right now, and as soon as i call her, she;ll be fine for a few days. i, on the other hand will go back to being fucked like on the first day. i feel fucking sad right now, that she needs me and i wont be there for her. but i gotta remind myself, that she is the one that doesnt want me in her life, not the other way around. she left me alone and hurt, when i needed her more then ever.

its amazing how these things just repeat over and over again. same thing happened with me. I would sit there and watch the cell ring with her number on it and get teary eyed but not pick it up. no contact is best.

 

[patsfan1379]

your statement is hard to swallow, but so true. i have to believe this

You WILL be fine... TRUST ME... You have to go out... Even if you sit and stew, just being out will help, you will talk to new people youll find friends etc. etc...

Do not let this defeat you. It WILL make you stronger...

 

[canadianhitman]

just got home from work. she called me a few times, 4 i think. she also called me last night at 2am. i didnt pick up any of the calls. she left one message saying she really needs to talk to me, and its killing me so much not to call her back. but i know shes just lonely and needs me right now, and as soon as i call her, she;ll be fine for a few days. i, on the other hand will go back to being fucked like on the first day. i feel fucking sad right now, that she needs me and i wont be there for her. but i gotta remind myself, that she is the one that doesnt want me in her life, not the other way around. she left me alone and hurt, when i needed her more then ever.

Sounds to me like you're making the right decisions, and you're seeing her calls for what they really are. You're WAY ahead of the game if you've already achieved this clarity of thought....good for you! You may still feel like shit emotionally, but from an intellectual standpoint you're well on the road to recovery. Give yourself a big pat on the back for that...it takes a lot of people MUCH LONGER to see things as they really are.

 

[patsfan1379]

Sounds to me like you're making the right decisions, and you're seeing her calls for what they really are. You're WAY ahead of the game if you've already achieved this clarity of thought....good for you! You may still feel like shit emotionally, but from an intellectual standpoint you're well on the road to recovery. Give yourself a big pat on the back for that...it takes a lot of people MUCH LONGER to see things as they really are.

could not be said better.

 

[needsize]

damn, I'm proud of you bro, all that talk about being weak last night, and somewhere you found the strength to not pick up the phone!!
Call me tonight if you wanna hangout

 

[alltraps]

dont be proud,the nights not over. you guys have no idea how much i miss her and want to talk to her so bad

 

[youlikeadajuice?]

This is just sad.

Let me start by saying, suck it up you pussy.

There are Billions, and thats billion with a B, other women out there.

This girl is not as great as your idle mind has made out. She is not as pretty as your idle mind has made out. You are not as desperate as your idle mind has made out.

Go find a woman, stop thinking about this shit so much.


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