should i stop my run, going through a break up

[bicepts101]

i always say that in life your supposed to meet women/men and go out with them, love them, hate them, fuck them, and break up with them etc...so u learn from these "signifigant others" and move on and look for a different person that privides the good qualities the prior did but doesnt have the bad ones....

...you said this is your first love....if shes got issues go find the one that doesnt..shes around just look or dont look...she'll turn up

 

[Synpax]

you;re right but the matters to tend to, i have no control over. so there is nothing i can do. i just wonder how long before im ok and myself again. thats what scares me. what if it takes months? what then? i dont train all that time and shrink to nothing? what if i never want to train again period? all these paranoid thoughts are in my head. i just cant imagine life without this girl. she really was the one for me. i feel so lost. i know i sound pothetic, but love did some shit to me that i thought was not possible

Best prescription for a break-up is to read some Ayn Rand. Fountainhead is a good start if you are new.

 

[shortstack]

Best prescription for a break-up is to read some Ayn Rand. Fountainhead is a good start if you are new.

umm.... yeah thats i thinking....

 

[alltraps]

i went to needsizes house for a bit. hes been there for me through this whole thing. him and his wife are good good friends, good listeners, and basicaly let me bitch as long as i want. i feel better at this moment. she didnt email me or call me. i dont know what to think of that. shes either actualy giving me the space i asked for , or shes fine and doenst need me. i cant analyze right now, but im ok as long as i dont see, or hear from her, or about her.
the reality that she really doesnt want to make it work is setting in and i am starting to accept it. i have to, i have no control. i am not going to be desperate and call and beg anymore. im better then that. i loved her and now at least i know she didnt love me. knowing is half the battle

 

[needsize]

alltraps did make it into the gym today, and managed to squat 405lbs for 5 rock bottom reps, pretty good considering, and he WILL be there tomorrow, hear that bro????
And dont forget you are always welcome at our house, the wife, baby, and handicapped dog all love to have you over

 

[glennds]

Best prescription for a break-up is to read some Ayn Rand. Fountainhead is a good start if you are new.

one of my favorite books of all time.

 

[alltraps]

alltraps did make it into the gym today, and managed to squat 405lbs for 5 rock bottom reps, pretty good considering, and he WILL be there tomorrow, hear that bro????
And dont forget you are always welcome at our house, the wife, baby, and handicapped dog all love to have you over

thanks man, you have no idea how much i appreciate what youve done for me. out of all my friends, you;ve been the most solid and helpfull. i hope one day I DONT HAVE TO help you with anything close to this, but if need be, im there

 

[alltraps]

Best prescription for a break-up is to read some Ayn Rand. Fountainhead is a good start if you are new.

what kind of books are these? i never read, maybe i should to take my mind off this.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

HEJ KURWA MAC! Fuc* that shi%* man. Man when i read this i feel like bitc* slaping you in the fuc*** face. You sound like a pussy.. A sorry ass pussy. Come to think of it you sound just like me 2 yrs ago.....its ok man...Listen i ll be honest with you..when i read this shit you posted i litterally swear to god thought i was reading EXACTLY my actions 2 yrs ago and the whole situation.....SHE TELLS YOU SHE IS ONLY 21 (OR IN MY CASE 19) AND LET ME GUESS SHE IS "THE FUCKED UP ONE" ITS NOT YOUR FAULT SHE TELLS YOU ( AND IT ISNT) SHE MAKE SSOME STUPID ASS EXCUSES THAT SHE IS CONFUSED ,, BLA BLA , BLA BLA BLA , YOUNG, BLA BLA,,, BLA,, THAT SHES BEEN HRT BE4 ,,BLA BLA BLA BLA,,. Oh and the bes tthing that i read that made me crack up is the poem, haha thats a bunch of BS.lol......she writing you apoem but....hahah.........also 1 more thing is this girl as you wrote probibaly told you even 3 week sbe4 of the plans you guys were to have...i bet 2 months earlier you were discussing geting maried or some shit....

Shit man i think im getting soem good therapy in myself......(MY cunt bitc* ho **** **** ***** ***** **** slut and i were discussing everything from amriage to moving , to future, education together, plans for houses, etc .she coudl not live without me more than 2 minutes...bla bla bla bla.... meeting the extended family 2 weeks earlier...then ...boom i get the same LOAD OF POINTLESSS CRAP ONLY A SLUT WOULD SAY.......bla this im crazy,, i go tproblems,, blabla.....i never got a real explanation.............well it turns out bitch met some fag(not realy a fag) and all tha tshit tha ti thought ther ewas no other person and she tooo..out th ewindow in 2 weeks.........just 1 day after not pickin gup phone and worying me wha thapened for 1 week tells me this BS......

LOL....check this.......karma to me is BS...but...then again the "treat others as you want to be treaated or else" the world does even actions out.......2 months ago i find out this girl is PREGNANT AT 20, lost her job,guy doesent want to marry her, , parents pist, freinds gone, ALL HER PLANS FOR A COOLLEGE EDUCATION GONE OR REALY DELAYED.. what a diference 1.5 yrs makes......now im not an sob i loved this bitch and still love eh rbut am no tin love an dwill nto be with her.....i wish he rwell and for ehr life to be the best it can........i hope sh eis happy....but jsut goes to show you ...wha tcomes aroudn goes around...
Meanwhile im getting back up on my feat and am almost toataly over this shit now....im so happy i found out this true nature of th egirl be4 we had a family god forbid and children ...then it would of realy screwed up my life mayeb past repair..!!!!!!!!!!!



GOD BLESS YOU BRO....

I think i feel bette rmyself..lol..time for GYM

 

[glennds]

what kind of books are these? i never read, maybe i should to take my mind off this.

the fountainhead is a classic written in the 40s (i think) by ayn rand, who was ahead or her time for extolling the virtues of selfishness, without being evil. there is a name for this, can't think of it.

the fountainhead is a great read for a man: it is the story of the rise and fall of two architects:

peter cushing: the ivy league educated, handsome, well connected, charming golden boy who quickly rises to the top of his profession coasting on his charm and plagarism who ultimately exposed and humiliated.

and howard roark: an unconvential architect who designed buildings people originally laughed at, but refused to pander to popular taste. eventually his designs caught on and he became respected and renowned. he stuck to what he believed in and achieved incredible success.